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Originally Posted by Gizmo
http://feministcurrent.com/5618/its-...-kink-shaming/
You're a psychologist, right? Where do you think people get the desire to be humiliated sexually, or hog tied, or etc? If a woman has rape fantasies, or can only get off from rape play... Is she born with it? Does it magically appear one day? Or are there outside forces that influence our sexual desires? Or is there a third option? I fully admit that I lack a good deal of knowledge in this area (and fwiw is my views related to this and porn are new and evolving as I read and learn more). So I truly do welcome your knowledge and input.
I'm a psychiatrist, but I'm not going to pretend that I understand where all people get their kinks from. I imagine it's complicated and different for different people. Then again, I'm not the one claiming that the source of some kinks is something morally reprehensible, that's you. And it's the author of the article you linked, who seems to have made up an idea of what leads people to BDSM, but I'm not seeing her attempt to actually validate this theory of hers. For calling others bad people, you'd think you'd actually have some sort of evidence.
Your whole tirade seems rather heteronormative, as well. Does your unvalidated theory find it morally ok for gay people to partake in BDSM?