Originally Posted by meanboyfriend
When I moved to Toronto to attend a small college I got a job at Walmart working evenings in the back unloading truck shipments. There were these two guys who were the alpha males of the group - you know, the loudest, most confident, the most obnoxious, arrogant, pushy, etc. One of them was pretty short, about 5'6", but stocky, and he seemed to be the type to want to assert himself over people, beat them down before they had any smart ideas about trying to bully him.
There was this Asian guy who worked with us, he seemed like he'd try to act alpha a bit, but generally he seemed just like a nice guy.
During my first week, one shift the aggressive joking and ridiculing that goes on in an all-male blue-collar workplace turned ugly. The two dominant males began calling him Asian racial slurs and making disparaging comments about his eyes such as "how can you see out of those slits?"
He tried to make some weak comebacks and act like it was all just part of the joking, but I knew that a line had been crossed (This was 12 years ago). There were other people laughing along, but a few of us were dead silent and I know I wasn't the only one who felt very uncomfortable, even upset by it. The Asian guys eyes were watery, like he was crying on the inside but it showed in his eyes. It went on for atleast 15 minutes were they just kept picking on him. I couldn't believe nobody was doing anything.
It really bugged me thinking about it for the rest of the day and into the evening, so I decided to bring it up to the Supervisor of the unloading dock the next day.
My supervisor was a portly guy with a shaved head and tattoos - kinda reminded me of a biker. When break came up and everybody left the area, I asked to speak with him in private. I brought up what had happened and he was very nonchalant about it, telling me it's just how this group messes around, it was all in good fun, so not to worry about it.
I was disappointed, but now I was also worried, because what if the Supervisor told the racist bullies that I had ratted them out? Them two were much meaner than me and i didn't want to be their next victim.
Later that night I gave one of the nice guys a ride home. I could tell that he didn't like what was going on either so I brought up the subject and he agreed. Something should be done. The good people need to take back control from the bad ones.
For the next week or so I kind of was "work friends" with him and we'd speak in hushed tones about what was going on, feeling too weak and afraid to do anything about it, except not like it. We were the nice guys.
Anyway, I quit that job after only being there about a week and a half. There were several reasons, part of which I felt like there was nothing I could do about it, basically feeling stressed, and I thought it wasn't my problem, so why should I feel stressed, it's not up to me to stand up for him. So I left.
The thing that shocked me the most about the whole situation was that the two racist bullies were black males. I was incredulous that black people, who've been the victims of racism for centuries, could turn around and be such despicable racists themselves, without any self-awareness, being completely lost in a fog about right and wrong. That was the thing that was the most baffling to me about the whole episode.