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Originally Posted by tomdemaine
Somehow the widespread definition of racist has come to mean a person that basically doesn't exist, the cross burner or the slaveowner and people imagine that if you call them or their actions/posts racist you are saying they are a KKK member level racist.
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Originally Posted by jjshabado
I think its back to the issue that some people seem to think that being called a racist is the same as being called Hitler. So they get super offended that you're calling them Hitler.
I think this is the main source of contention. However, I don't think the accusers are always blameless for these misunderstandings. If you're well aware that the other person is likely to interpret "racist ~= Nazi" and you call them racist (without any clarification), I think to some extent that's similar to out-and-out calling them a Nazi, while maintaining plausible deniability. You might protest "well, they should have known that racism spans a large spectrum". but communicating effectively is about knowing your audience. If you know your audience is likely to misinterpret what you're saying, that's your fault, not your audience's.
I think -
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Originally Posted by tomdemaine
have some very clear banner which says to new posters your definition of racism is unlikely to be the one held by the most vocal members of this community.
- could be a fair solution to this, although I would have it spell everything out, e.g.
"Was your post called racist? Before you get offended, note that the other person probably wasn't trying to equate you to a Nazi or Klansman. Racial prejudice comes in a broad spectrum and we all suffer from it to varying degrees. You could still be a generally good person with friends of many races and yet still exhibit subconscious biases. It's worthwhile to engage in self-reflection to expose and hopefully eliminate these biases."