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Originally Posted by BrianTheMick2
No, it is them being moms that makes them better at it. Are you attempting to say that we don't train them for the role?
I never said at all that women are more emotional. I'm not sure why you are focusing on the fact that I piped up after masque opened his mouth. This isn't some team sport. I am quite clearly on record as stating that masque doesn't understand social science stuff. He gets extremely emotional when he reads me saying stuff like that.
They are. Men typically are not well-trained in expressing their emotions. Our response set tends to be much more limited.
Would you say that a claim that women tend to be paid less than men for the same job is a stereotype?!?
I didn't do any of that. I said that women tend to be more skilled. Having to resort to displays of aggression is a sign of low skill.
I am rapidly coming to the conclusion that you are not reading a word I am saying.
To be fair, though, you've only written two or more consecutive sentences a couple of times.
What happened was, you reinforced a longstanding stereotype by defending its use by someone else -- he literally said, "Those are stereotypes that reflect of course the average man/woman etc," which Gizmo cited as sexist.
You said, but doesn't everyone understand that women are skilled at emotions while men are not? Which was just a repetition of the stereotype that was called sexist in the first place, which the guy acknowledged as sexist, and along you came to say, no but seriously it's not sexist if it's true.
Yadda yadda yadda, I tell you to specify which women, when, which emotion, given that only a subset of human feelings are commonly defined as
emotions and associated with the feminine-- sadness, distress, anxiety...-- while others -- pride, regret, frustration, etc are not, so when we are discussing 'emotions' we are almost by default discussing 'feminine' traits, and this dynamic of associations has kept women in a self-reinforcing box forever. It seems to me that what you meant was that it's your impression women will more readily express a certain narrow category of feelings and do so nonviolently (=appropriately?) or at least in a way you don't expect men to, because you associate these emotions with women in accordance with the stereotype.
My personal suspicion is that awareness and articulation aren't very different between the sexes and it's more a matter of the conditions under which an individual will do it.