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Originally Posted by Oroku$aki
Why did you chop my post up? Ya I took first year psych, but more importantly I have depression and I've read a lot about my illness. (through genetics or a harsh childhood for example) is clearer though.
I didn't chop it up. I was responding to a specific part that I had an issue with.
Generally, it is ok to have an etiological story whether it reflects reality or not. Unless, of course, the etiological story is used as an excuse to not improve.*
This kid, by all accounts, had what looks objectively like a better than average start at life. Unless we see evidence that his (what I am guessing is some form of psychoticism) problems are genetic, it is all up in the air. Might have been a virus, or just really bad luck that he was overindulged in everything other than being liked, might have been that he was just an ass who no one liked, might have just been that he was short an some tall kid named Bob who was beaten by his step-dad picked on him but wouldn't have if he had a sense of humor, or just a confluence of events leading him to being confused, or a bacteria, or a slight bump on the head at a critical developmental stage that damaged his left parietal lobe, or whatever.
He actually said that his mom was "selfish" for not marrying a rich guy. My mom didn't either. The richest kid in my neighborhood was the one kid who owned a football. I was jealous as heck at his good fortune. Enough about me, as it didn't occur to me to go on a killing spree.
(And in case it matters, sorry that you are depressed. Hoping for you that it is self-limiting and not chronic. Don't believe any etiological stories that indicate that you are doomed to stay depressed, such as "it is genetic" or "it is because I had a rough childhood" - the facts are that some people don't stay depressed which means that those stories must be factually false as none of the formerly depressed changed their genetics or their childhood to stop being depressed.)