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06-29-2013 , 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Mat Sklansky
i don't think cwoc is serious anymore:

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...2&postcount=75
Why would you think that an argument backed up with a serious scientific study wasn't serious ? Because there is humour in the odd post ?
06-29-2013 , 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Original Position
Sure, cwocwoc claims to be an atheist.
I am an atheist. I do not believe in any religious God. I subscribe to much of the original Humanist Manifesto. Humanists are atheists.
06-29-2013 , 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted by master3004
Mat, I have never personally met an atheist opposed to gay marriage, but that doesnt mean they arent out there. I would be curious for that line of reasoning as well. To me an atheist gay rights denier is the same as a gay christian, it doesnt make any sense at all
My position is that you should have your rights and that includes the right to exercise your discrete gay identity. I have already posted (but it's probably worth repeating) that this is probably a different debate where I am in the UK as we have had equal civil partnerships for gay people for a number of years.
06-29-2013 , 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Cwocwoc
Why would you think that an argument backed up with a serious scientific study wasn't serious ? Because there is humour in the odd post ?
your arguments don't make any sense to me at all, so i think you're screwing around. whether you are or not doesn't matter. that's simply my perception.
06-29-2013 , 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Mat Sklansky
your arguments don't make any sense to me at all, so i think you're screwing around. whether you are or not doesn't matter. that's simply my perception.
As you are the arbiter of what's allowed on here I'm bowing out of this.
06-29-2013 , 08:46 PM
Don't back down! Who else will be able to tell us what it means to be gay???
06-29-2013 , 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Cwocwoc
My position is that you should have your rights and that includes the right to exercise your discrete gay identity. I have already posted (but it's probably worth repeating) that this is probably a different debate where I am in the UK as we have had equal civil partnerships for gay people for a number of years.

this may very well be the problem. looking at the US, what should realistically be done at this point in your opinion?
06-29-2013 , 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
I'm a gay Jew (I'm a believer, it's not just cultural for me, though it is to a large extent).

according to the following article you picked the right religion: http://www.haaretz.com/opinion/welco...emium-1.532565


i'm mildly obsessed with this whole issue and try as i might, i can't find anybody who makes any sense when it comes to the civil unions are ok but no marriage. except when it's applied to ALL marriage.

They just repeat the phrase "I believe that marriage is between one man and one woman." Chris Christie said that, for instance. And I don't think he's considered a bigot. I'd like to see someone like that (those beliefs) come on here and debate.
06-29-2013 , 09:24 PM
There may be a reason all the people who argue that POV never make any sense.
06-29-2013 , 10:29 PM
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Originally Posted by PocketChads
Do YOU feel that Leviticus can be ignored? Do you think that 99% of people who consider themselves Christians actually aren't?
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Originally Posted by Original Position
Do you have similar views about tattooed followers of the Bible?
Jews are a bit different in that they don't follow the new testament, where the "good christians" like to say everything from the OT got swept away.

Chads, no, I don't think that if you profess the god of the bible is real and that it is based on his holy word passed down through man that Leviticus can just be ignored because it is inconvenient.

OP, thats kind of the problem I have with Christianity in general, the whole 17394765048947 different interpretations on what is true regarding a book supposedly inspired by an ominpotent god.
06-29-2013 , 10:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Cwocwoc
My position is that you should have your rights and that includes the right to exercise your discrete gay identity. I have already posted (but it's probably worth repeating) that this is probably a different debate where I am in the UK as we have had equal civil partnerships for gay people for a number of years.
Why do you have to be discrete about being gay? Do you think heteros should also be discrete? Why or why not?
06-29-2013 , 10:37 PM
Discrete != discreet and I'm pretty sure he spelled it how he meant it

Or maybe I misunderstood your post, 3004
06-29-2013 , 11:08 PM
You're right, I was the one who misunderstood. So essentially it sounds like Cwoc is advocating separate but equal, which doesn't really fly here, seeing as how that was roughly a synonym for bigotry in the 50's and 60's. Like he said, maybe things are different in the Uk, but here, bigots hide behind the separate but equal stance to say "They get everything they want, we just use a different name for it" when in fact they were not getting all the same rights as married couples.
06-29-2013 , 11:20 PM
so cwoc isn't making a "something something god" argument, he's just "well gay people are different than straight people therefore anything goes" argument?

Women are different than men, right?

So what sort of restrictions on women would be normatively justified based on that difference IYO?

Voting?

Ownership of property?
06-29-2013 , 11:29 PM
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Originally Posted by master3004
You're right, I was the one who misunderstood. So essentially it sounds like Cwoc is advocating separate but equal, which doesn't really fly here, seeing as how that was roughly a synonym for bigotry in the 50's and 60's. Like he said, maybe things are different in the Uk, but here, bigots hide behind the separate but equal stance to say "They get everything they want, we just use a different name for it" when in fact they were not getting all the same rights as married couples.
"Civil partnerships in the United Kingdom, granted under the Civil Partnership Act 2004, give same-sex couples rights and responsibilities identical to civil marriage."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Civil_...om#cite_note-1
06-29-2013 , 11:31 PM
Right, that isnt the case here in the States. Knowing that, do you support gay marriage becoming legal over civil partnerships in order to provide those looking to get married the same rights as hetero couples?
06-29-2013 , 11:59 PM
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Originally Posted by master3004
Right, that isnt the case here in the States. Knowing that, do you support gay marriage becoming legal over civil partnerships in order to provide those looking to get married the same rights as hetero couples?
My argument is that gay people should want equal civil partnerships/gay marriages rather than joint marriages with heterosexuals.
06-30-2013 , 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Cwocwoc
My argument is that gay people should want equal civil partnerships/gay marriages rather than joint marriages with heterosexuals.
Question: If gay men are like straight women, and straight women want marriage... then why wouldn't gay men want marriage?
06-30-2013 , 12:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Cwocwoc
My argument is that gay people should want equal civil partnerships/gay marriages rather than joint marriages with heterosexuals.
Why?
06-30-2013 , 12:04 AM
I'm not even sure what the **** "joint marriages with heterosexuals" means
06-30-2013 , 12:04 AM
Because, you know, they're different or something. Having a partnership that is termed "marriage" will somehow dilute the identity of gaydom everywhere.
06-30-2013 , 12:05 AM
Hi gay people ITT: do you want a marriage with straight people?
06-30-2013 , 12:06 AM
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Originally Posted by pvn
I'm not even sure what the **** "joint marriages with heterosexuals" means
I think he means, "sharing the word 'marriage' for their union". Like gay people shouldn't want what they're doing called marriage because they're not straight and the word marriage has traditionally been defined by straight people doing it.
06-30-2013 , 12:11 AM
Joint marriages typically happen in colorado and Washington afaik
06-30-2013 , 12:13 AM
Wait, does Cwoc want gay marriages to actually legally be called "Gay marriage?"

      
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