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Originally Posted by kurto
Don't get me wrong, I am aware of the power of language. And Im aware some word choices connote more respect. I get that "Whore" is pejorative where, imo, "prostitute" is more clinical.
I think there's some point where changing the words can become a ridiculous exercise. And to my point, the best alternative titles suggested above are the ones that completely obscure what the person is doing.
I don't think there is any point at which changing the words becomes a ridiculous exercise. I think you are thinking of the words as defining only the subject. You're saying "prostitute" defines some aspect of dude's interviewee. Ironically (and more importantly), it also defines the speaker and the context of the communication.
In the context that dude is going for it's true that better titles obscure what the person is doing. But that's OK because that is not an operational issue- we all know what the person is doing. To say that the better titles obscure is too broad a characterization. More importantly, they downplay and distance themselves from commonly held implications associated with the more common titles. In so doing they establish a nonjudgmental communication where information will flow more freely.
When I choose how to label you, the point is really to label myself and the frame of context I want to establish. Choosing a title has zero to do with obscuring operational definitions or stigmas, which are tacitly understood. If you think of them as obscuring, which is superficial, then yes they would be pointless. But they function on a deeper level than that.