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Originally Posted by dereds
I don't know what's tough to understand about me asking you not to talk about stuff you then say you don't want to talk about.
What does that mean? I talk about the stuff I do want to talk about, that sometimes includes explaining there's some stuff I don't want to talk about.
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I know you think it's group think when people claim you are intentionally vague and avoid stating positions clearly but my very clear point is that telling me I am way off at the very same time you are telling me you don't want to discuss it is ****. I don't know how much clearer I can make it.
Sometimes I'm intentionally vague and often I don't have a clear position. These are not bad things, plenty of stuff i'm not certain about and lots to learn.
I'm saying to you I'm happy to discuss the general issue but not willing to get into a detailed analysis of DS because I think that's a ridiculous thing to do. I'm also giving you my very clear view that DS brings lots of value
I've no good idea why that upsets you in any way even if you disagree.
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I don't recall a time when you've left a conversation without responding irrespective of whether you have expressed a desire to continue the conversation. I don't mind you thinking I post rubbish I'm not a fan of being told I'm wrong at the same point someone tells me they don't actually want to discuss it.
Your recollection is faulty. Sorry if it bothers you but you may notice it's usually when discussing a third person when imo it's sometimes appropriate. More rare it's on a topic though it happened recently regarding rape. Probably not great to tell you you are talking rubbish, what can I say, I'm an arse sometimes.
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With regard to the SS thread it is not the fact it degenerated into a ding dong about race it is that he couldn't see the problem with his premise from the very beginning, DS admitted that he wanted to challenge us with a position that he understood to be a "bit racist" assuming that posters in the forum would be all right about it because it is somewhat reparative while generally what happened was people saw it and thought no that's a **** way to improve the position of African Americans and discriminatory against poor white people. Just as you think that people are being silly when they accuse you of water carrying the truth is you've just assumed you know what my objections to his posting are, and you're wrong.
I wasn't assuming anything about your view except you seemed to have missed me addressing the content but even then I wasn't sure what you meant as I mentioned.
I don't think DS though people would be alright with it but again and I'm sorry this bothers you - apart from disagreeing with you I don't wish to discuss it in detail because I think it's ridiculous to keep analysing another poster this way unless they wish to get involved.