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11-12-2014 , 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted by chezlaw
You just have to move on. For some you are guilty and that is the end of it, there's no defense and never will be. Most reasonable people will just accept your defense without making a judgement.
Not at all. Most reasonable people will see that the defence is likely bull**** because it doesn't make sense. And because its just one part of a pattern of behaviour. Even look at this thread - I don't think babbah in any way accurately reflected what happened. At a certain point people lose my trust that they're just making innocent mistakes. And given anonymous internet posters - it doesn't take a lot.


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Originally Posted by chezlaw
Take more care in future especially if you care what they think in P because any mistake is enough to condemn you. Remember how low the wookie bar is for being called a racist and don't take it personally.
If you want to not be seen as a racist - stop saying/doing racist **** like this and then making lots of excuses and vague wording to get out of acknowledging what you did was wrong.
11-12-2014 , 08:37 AM
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Originally Posted by DudeImBetter
No it's cool.

Johnny might be racist. Hell, his posts sure do paint an ugly picture. But I stand by the belief that the approach I'm gunning for ITT is a superior way to manage suspected prejudice when compared to the typical (lazy) responses we get ITF: assumptions, vitriol, label, repeat.
What's the approach? Here's Duker's first post:

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What about the poor inner city kids that are growing up in a stable home?

This false dichotomy is itself evidence of a racist mindset.
He's not calling Johnny any names. He's pointing out that its a false dichotomy and what that indicates.

His next post:

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I don't have to read any other threads, you just divided the universe of black kids into two separate groups: "poor inner city" and "growing up in stable homes". This is obviously wrong, and the fact that you so casually make this generalization is, you know, evidence.
Again, he explains whats wrong and states that its evidence of a racist mindset.

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So to recap, you come into a thread to whine about being called a racist, proceed to say something racist, and your defense is "go read another thread"? Cool story I guess. Like, even if you had defended yourself adequately in the other thread, it's not like that gives you immunity for all the future racist **** you're going to say.
The third post (shortly following his second) elaborates on his point more. A bit rougher but still not calling him a racist and just stating once again that he stated something racist.

So what should Duker have done differently? Should he have avoid the words 'racist'/'racism' altogether? How can we possibly have meaningful discussions without the basic words involved with the concept?
11-12-2014 , 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted by jjshabado
Not at all. Most reasonable people will see that the defence is likely bull**** because it doesn't make sense. And because its just one part of a pattern of behaviour. Even look at this thread - I don't think babbah in any way accurately reflected what happened. At a certain point people lose my trust that they're just making innocent mistakes. And given anonymous internet posters - it doesn't take a lot.
That's not my approach or I believe a reasonable one. There's simply no reason to judge him as racist. He posted something, he admits a mistake and makes pretty clear he disagrees with the racist bit (from what I've read anyway). The detailed analysis is frankly ridiculous.

So much seems to be made of the anonymity bit but that makes minimal difference imo. If you're really saying you would treat a 'real' person differently then that may be our only disagreement.

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If you want to not be seen as a racist - stop saying/doing racist **** like this
I agree he should take more care but I don't think he should worry much about the low bar favoured by 'your side'. Again if you only take this approach because its anonymous that's possibly our only disagreement.

Hopefully you do realise I'm ignoring your caveat because so is he and you must be aware of that.

Last edited by chezlaw; 11-12-2014 at 08:49 AM.
11-12-2014 , 09:01 AM
I don't think you read very good Chezlaw. Might be why you couldnt tell BruceZ was a horrible racist.

FYI bahbah isn't good at the maths and wont be helping with calculus homework, if it makes reading any easier for you.

Last edited by LetsGambool; 11-12-2014 at 09:10 AM.
11-12-2014 , 09:01 AM
Chez, the detailed analysis is the point. Because your simplified:

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He posted something, he admits a mistake and makes pretty clear he disagrees with the racist bit (from what I've read anyway).
didn't happen. He claims thats what he did, but the posts don't back him up.

So sure, if you just ignore a bunch of details and look at a really simplified view of things then there's no reason to judge him a racist. But that's only because you've literally just ignored the reasons. Seems like a silly way to look at things.

If by 'your side' you mean people that understand what the word racist means, cool.

I don't know what you're talking about wrt 'my caveat'.
11-12-2014 , 09:01 AM
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Originally Posted by LetsGambool
I don't think you read very good Chezlaw.
Chez, I agree with this in the least-mean way possible.
11-12-2014 , 09:17 AM
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Originally Posted by jjshabado
Chez, I agree with this in the least-mean way possible.
It does suit you but it doesn't fit with the meaning.

The detailed analysis is just silly. I gave my view on the situation now and its an easy move on take more care. No judgement is required about the poster.

Trying to link it to Bruce is just playing sides. If I rise to it then your side will insist SMP started it up again.

BTW it can't be me reading bad on this occasion as I haven't seen any reason to read the detail at all. You may be confusing what I actually meant with what you think it meant - to clarify - the process of doing the detailed analysis appears ridiculous in this case, not that I've read a potentially useful detailed analysis and found the conclusions ridiculous.

Last edited by chezlaw; 11-12-2014 at 09:23 AM.
11-12-2014 , 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted by chezlaw
BTW it can't be me reading bad on this occasion as I haven't seen any reason to read the detail at all.
* A says B did something with reasons X, Y, Z
* B says X, Y, Z didn't happen.

You're perfectly fine with saying, I'm not going to look into X, Y, Z myself because B said they didn't happen. A is accusing B of doing something with no reason!

Seriously, that's ****ed.
11-12-2014 , 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted by jjshabado
Not at all. Most reasonable people will see that the defence is likely bull**** because it doesn't make sense. And because its just one part of a pattern of behaviour. Even look at this thread - I don't think babbah in any way accurately reflected what happened. At a certain point people lose my trust that they're just making innocent mistakes. And given anonymous internet posters - it doesn't take a lot.




If you want to not be seen as a racist - stop saying/doing racist **** like this and then making lots of excuses and vague wording to get out of acknowledging what you did was wrong.
If you think my defense is BS do you mind showing me where it is wrong? You can quote my post where I list gambols 4 arguments and tell me where my counter arguments are wrong.
11-12-2014 , 09:25 AM
I'll start with you claiming that when you said "this article" you obviously meant "some other article".
11-12-2014 , 09:26 AM
I guess straight up ignoring what racist posters actually write because you are determined to show your racist BFF was wronged is one approach to take to this subject.

Honestly saying you have this view because of Bruce is being pretty charitable to you. It's saying fondness of a poster is getting in the way of your judgment. The alternative is that you failed logic 101.
11-12-2014 , 09:29 AM
Chezlaw world

Poster a: I hate black people because of their skin color.
Poster B: that's pretty racist yo
Poster A: oh I meant a specific person I know with the last name black.
Poster B: what, that's not what you said.
Chezlaw: I don't get it. Why are you being mean to poster B? You must be on a side you big meanie. Woah is me. How can you say poster A is racist?
11-12-2014 , 09:45 AM
When you think they don't understand what someone says:

"It's not a listener's job to endlessly prompt you for what you mean."

When they think that you don't understand what someone says:

"I don't think you read very good"
11-12-2014 , 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted by jjshabado
* A says B did something with reasons X, Y, Z
* B says X, Y, Z didn't happen.

You're perfectly fine with saying, I'm not going to look into X, Y, Z myself because B said they didn't happen. A is accusing B of doing something with no reason!

Seriously, that's ****ed.
No I saying its a ridiculous thing to get involved in for him as well. He admits he made a mistake, the bar is so low he can never get P to say they made a mistake even if they did. He should move on and be more careful next time.
11-12-2014 , 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted by chezlaw
No I saying its a ridiculous thing to get involved in for him as well. He admits he made a mistake, the bar is so low he can never get P to say they made a mistake even if they did. He should move on and be more careful next time.
Who's P?

Anyway, I'm still confused. Let's start with: if someone says something racist - should they be called out on it?
11-12-2014 , 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted by LetsGambool
I guess straight up ignoring what racist posters actually write because you are determined to show your racist BFF was wronged is one approach to take to this subject.

Honestly saying you have this view because of Bruce is being pretty charitable to you. It's saying fondness of a poster is getting in the way of your judgment. The alternative is that you failed logic 101.
I do like how you don't pretend it's not a personal attack.

It's rubbish but at least in your case it's honest rubbish.
11-12-2014 , 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted by jjshabado
Who's P?
P is politics. That's where I assume this started and from where my mate blahblah is (mistakenly imo) trying to clear his name.

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Anyway, I'm still confused. Let's start with: if someone says something racist - should they be called out on it?
Of course. Even if you just think they have, or what they said could easily be taken as racist it's a good idea.
11-12-2014 , 09:58 AM
Ok, so now if you told someone they said something racist. What do you think they should do?
11-12-2014 , 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted by AlexM
When you think they don't understand what someone says:

"It's not a listener's job to endlessly prompt you for what you mean."

When they think that you don't understand what someone says:

"I don't think you read very good"
How did he determine I didn't understand what bahbah said since he, you know, admitted he didn't read what bahbah said?
11-12-2014 , 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted by JohnyCrash
Count me out of your thread. The duker pretty much called me racist and now you say I might be. I thought according to this thread, you said that there would be no accusations of being racist and it was going to be a civil discussion.

Dib you have turned into one of them.

Also Spank thanks but dont bother, these guys will never change their bad behavior. They think they are doing a public service.
I reported you for what you said to Duker, IDK why you're even still allowed to post here as that was hell and gone from the line.
11-12-2014 , 10:08 AM
DiB - You're the mod. I just carry out the enforcement due to technical limitations.

If you want posts deleted - you have to report them. If you want someone banned from the thread you have to tell them. I deleted the post you reported.
11-12-2014 , 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted by jjshabado
Ok, so now if you told someone they said something racist. What do you think they should do?
If they agree and they aren't racist then ideally they will correct themselves, apologise for causing offense and resolve to avoid it in future.
11-12-2014 , 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted by JohnyCrash
Count me out of your thread. The duker pretty much called me racist and now you say I might be. I thought according to this thread, you said that there would be no accusations of being racist and it was going to be a civil discussion.

Dib you have turned into one of them.

Also Spank thanks but dont bother, these guys will never change their bad behavior. They think they are doing a public service.
Pretty sure the bolded is false.
11-12-2014 , 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted by chezlaw
If they agree and they aren't racist then ideally they will correct themselves, apologise for causing offense and resolve to avoid it in future.
Cool. What should they do if they don't agree?
11-12-2014 , 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted by jjshabado
DiB - You're the mod. I just carry out the enforcement due to technical limitations.

If you want posts deleted - you have to report them. If you want someone banned from the thread you have to tell them. I deleted the post you reported.
Got it, thx.

Crash is thread banned for his choice words towards Duker.

      
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