Quote:
Originally Posted by FoldnDark
This just seems way too nit picky to me, like just looking for a reason to cry racist instead of arguing the points. Does anyone discussing this topic need to spell out they don't mean stable inner-city families, but instead ...
Nope, sorry, this is wrong and gets straight to the heart of the matter. I don't care about the "points" of the stupid rap music argument. That's not what this thread is about.
The words that people write into their posts are literally the only things we have to go on in making a assessment of their positions and values. So yes, when discussing
any topic, everybody needs to "spell out" what they mean and not just count on everybody else guessing correctly.
What he wrote was indisputably racist. It was an implicit assertion that all poor "inner-city" black families are inherently unstable. This is an ignorant stereotype that does a lot of damage. After reading his post, I made a reasonable assessment of his position. The only assumption involved in that assessment was that people mean what they say. What you're suggesting is that instead I should be assuming that people
don't necessarily mean what they say. That I should be reading his mind and deciding that when he says "X" he must really mean "Y". That's ridiculous, and a sure way to increase confusion and misunderstandings.
All we do here -- all we can
possibly do -- is observe what people say and incorporate those observations into constantly evolving models of their characters. His initial statement was the seed for my assessment. His reaction to my reaction was then factored in. His "defense" was factored in, etc. This process is completely natural and unavoidable.