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Originally Posted by PJo336
See thats my opinion too, but I bet once we hit 30 or so well have a big change of heart. I wonder how much having all your friends married with kids changes a viewpoint.
I'm 29, a little over six months to 30, so I am a decent bit closer to that point than you are. I have a number of old high school friends who have kids; one of them has a wife and three kids. I don't know how powerful this point is, but: I don't envy that aspect of these people's lives even a little bit. Not one iota. You'd think that I'd feel something in that direction, but no. That's why I'm dubious that I'll necessarily change my mind.
Again though, a woman wanting kids is not something I see as a significant negative, and if I got married to one who wanted them then there's just no way that I'd steadfastly stand by an attitude of "nope, not doing it." Without a prospective wife in the picture right now, it's a bit difficult to have a full enough scope to tell what my long-term attitude will be.