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Originally Posted by SouthSideDon
I prefer going to Hammond over downtown Chicago or even Des Plaines. The area may be a shithole, but it is MY shithole and I love it for the way it is. I feel more comfortable here than in the uppity areas north of Chicago.
Pride in something they themselves admit is awful is a level of commitment and stubbornness ya gotta respect.
Today I learned middle class burbs with no crime where the vast majority of Americans live are "uppity"
Chicago's population about 3.3 million, the surrounding burbs 9million
Those burbs cant all be "uppity" unless we water down that term to the point of it being anyone who makes north of $45K
But I'm okay with this label.
I'm glad you're happy where you are too.
Truth be told, I'm guessing you're just numb to the risks in your area and have gotten to the point where it is normal for you.
Clearly a sense of bitterness since you're not exactly using "uppity" in a complimentary way.
Move to the uppity areas and your blood pressure will plummet and you'll be able to breathe deeper and better.
Stress-related health issues are real. Living in a dangerous area is -ev as we like to say at the table, amirite?
Not sure how you're "more comfortable" in a place with infinitely far more to worry about in terms of violence, theft, and other crimes than one that doesn't,
but hey, you do you!
About ten years ago I dated a woman very briefly who lived near Comiskey (and not in the rebuild areas, it was in hard core gang crossfire territory) and she talked about how she wanted to move to a safer place.
I told her I think it would be a fantastic idea for her and she'd absolutely love it.
We broke up, maybe we were together for 2 months tops, not the least of which is
I was not about to voluntarily go in and out of that neighborhood ever
no woman is "I'll drive through a shooting gallery level" hot!
but a few years later she contacted me saying she bought a small townhome in uppity Lombard and says it was the best thing she's ever done.
Now, she had two kids both in their upper teens, maybe you're a single guy and only need to worry about yourself, if so, I can get there that you like where you are, you can handle it on your own with no other responsibilities, just seems odd to be so proud of what you yourself call a "**** hole"
Feel free to hold on to and defend your self-described "**** hole" but to most everyone else, we're just confused by that.
You dont owe your 'hood your best years or any years for that matter, or your mental health,
you deserve a happy life without the worry of random crime at every corner.
It's okay, we uppity people in Schaumburg, Melrose Park, even dreaded Naperville will welcome you with open arms . . . and then get back to enjoying our boring uppity lives just making a living and keep on keeping on. We're not monsters looking down on you
something to think about . . .