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Originally Posted by jjshabado
My $0.02.
That comment isn't very bad. It's written in a sort-of condescending way, but I'd probably agree with the general sentiment in many cases and I try very hard to give people the benefit of the doubt when interpreting online comments. [Edit: In real life - on 2+2, not so much]
I'll also say that people that go ahead and quietly do stuff that other people are already working on is a huge pet peeve of mine. I find it a very passive aggressive thing to do and generally a huge waste of everyone's time. If you feel strongly about it, come talk about it before and work **** out. I've felt this way since high school when I use to work in a completely non-technical job.
I think there are a lot of developers that think "I'll just add this simple thing here and its clearly worth it" and the result is a giant pile of **** that actually is hard to maintain and reason about. Obviously there are simple things that are worth doing. But its just as obvious (imo) that we're bad at seeing the line between "simple thing worth doing" and "simple thing that is actually adding more to overall complexity than gives back in value".
All that being said, it seems obvious there's a bunch of context/history that we're missing and almost certainly both of you are being overly sensitive. And in my opinion the junior person gets the benefit of the doubt in these cases and she should suck it up. If she wants to talk to you she should do it without all the damn drama.
I will admit I did this. kind of. we were assigned tasks. she assigned herself the task of setting up the html. I was "nominated/assigned" the task of creating the switch statement logic.
obv I need the html template to do the logic that feeds it and an overall design. day 1 I bring this up and the whole team talks about it for like an hour and no decision gets made. day 2 I go to her in the morning to work on it together. she is adamantly against committing to a design and makes the comment that I need to forget everything Ive learned.
I think fine, I can work on other stuff and when she puts her PR up, I will go from there.
no PR that day. I come in the morning and still no PR. I decide to work on my part and throw up a branch around 11 it was just a prototype and I made it known as such. it includes the task I was assigned but obv I needed to include the html to make it work.
so ya, I was frustrated that we had gone in circles for almost 3 days. I was frustrated that she refused to work with me the previous morning. and I was bored.
but I did the task that I was
assigned. I just needed some html to make it work and I included it. too bad that it was her task. she had 2 full days to copy and paste the html from one branch to anther. that was literally all she had to do.
ya, in hindsight I should have just sat on my hands and waited for her to finish and go from there but jfc.
Last edited by Victor; 09-23-2018 at 02:37 PM.