Dave, when we talk about sexism / racism - we're not talking about men smacking women on the ass or people getting called the n-word.
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I think that the debate is confusing to many people for many reasons. For example, I recently stayed in the Delta for 3 months. I'd bet you'd be surprised to know that whites and blacks tend to get along pretty darn good.
Why would this surprise me? I'm not talking about open race warfare.
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They also marry each other. I knew two white guy / black girl couples personally.
Oh dear Lord. We're not talking about racism at the "inter-marriage is illegal" level.
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This would have been absolutely unheard of in any city the 80s even. In fact, growing up in the 90s with limited racial options, me dating a black girl was an absolute no-no. I was "allowed" to date white or Asian (but not all Asian races). Those rules are definitely not a thing these days.
Uh, ok.
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I currently live in a heterogeneous area, never lived in a "white" area, and had far more "minority" friends (and girlfriends) than white friends in my life, so this is the perspective as I've seen it.
Uh...
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There are two kinds of people I interact with: those that are too far gone and those that don't want to deal with it.
This says a lot about you. You're classifying anybody that doesn't want to deal with racism at all as someone too far gone. You're not starting from a reasonable position here.
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The too far gone sees a white guy and thinks that I'm the reason for all the world's problems. I obviously grew up behind picket fences and ruined my entire life.
The people who don't want to talk about it are exactly that: They will say "shut the **** up, [racial slang here], aren't we past all that in the year 2017." You see, when you hear two non-whites talking race, they tell each other to **** off and let it be done. They don't want to discuss it.
Lol, you're so ****ing delusional. The majority of people that are talking about institutional racism or white privilege don't blame individual white people for all the world's problems. They ARE trying to inform everyone that white people have a large number of structural advantages over black people in society. The goal is to even the playing field - not by removing the privileges of being white, but giving them to everyone.
When people complain about racism in policing they're not asking for white people to be shot more often. They're asking for black people to get the same latitude that white people get and not get shot as often.
Whether you personally believe they're right or wrong, this is a VERY large group of minority people. If you think they don't exist you need to open your eyes (OR more likely your minority friends/co-workers know your opinion and just don't want to actually talk to you about it).
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I've also never worked in a company that is majority white. Regardless of being Mexican, black, Chinese, whatever, they care about exactly one thing: Do you get **** done?
Uh... ok? Regardless of how I think you're probably full of **** here, I'll give the benefit of the doubt and say - companies that aren't majority white aren't the main focus of people that are trying to address institutional sexism or racism.
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If someone does start with all that, the first time is a stink-eye. The second time is either getting fired or getting taken out back after work. Either way, there is no 3rd offense.
Uh, ok?
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I think that the shift really happened somewhere in the 00's, but it depends on exactly where you are. As some 20-something once said to me: the old guard (over 40 or 50) needs to die for us to finally move past it all.
Why? What metrics changed from the 90s to the late 00's?
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I think that so much of what people want to talk about when talking about race is really social and financial class.
Sure, this is part of it.
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I think that, really, no one who grew up middle or upper class has any ****ing clue what racism is, and when people who really seen and experienced racism hear them talk, it sounds wrong because it really is wrong.
I have no idea what the **** this means. But its sounds pretty dumb.
My only guess is that you still don't even know what we're talking about when we talk about racism. Again, its not just people beating other people up because they're the wrong race or shouting mean words at each other.
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A simple metric: remember that Oscar-winning movie Crash? If you thought it was important, you have no clue what racism is.
I don't know much about movies. But this isn't a metric. It's gibberish.
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I know this probably doesn't answer your question,
Actually, it answers my question pretty well. Those of us who have spent any time talking about racism aren't surprised by your post at all. It's the good old "racism is one person being mean/violent to another person because they're different races" definition of racism.
That's not the definition of racism we're using. We're using:
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Institutional racism (also known as institutionalized racism) is a form of racism expressed in the practice of social and political institutions. Institutional racism is also racism by individuals or informal social groups,[1] governed by behavioral norms that support racist thinking and foment active racism. It is reflected in disparities regarding wealth, income, criminal justice, employment, housing, health care, political power and education, among other things. Whether implicitly or explicitly expressed, institutional racism occurs when a certain group is targeted and discriminated against based upon race. Institutional racism is mostly implicit in our ideas and attitudes, so it is often unnoticed by the individual expressing it (see implicit bias).
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Institutional_racism
So, first, your definition of racism still exists. See
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unite_the_Right_rally. Or check hate crime stats. This **** happens all the time.
But, sure, its not as bad as it use to be. Older, explicitly racist, people are dying off and younger people are definitely less racist in the "Using the n-word" fashion.
But, and here's the thing, institutional racism IS A THING. Ignoring it may make you feel better, but it exists. This is just a sampling from a few minutes on wikipedia:
* "Studies in major cities such as Los Angeles and Baltimore show that communities of color have lower levels of access to parks and green space"
* "Unfortunately, race and class is a reliable indicator of how where industrial plants and waste facilities are located. Institutional environmental racism encompasses these land use decisions that contribute to health issues such as asthma obesity and diabetes"
* "A 2013 report by the American Civil Liberties Union found that blacks were "3.73 times more likely than whites to be arrested for marijuana possession", even though "blacks and whites use drugs, including marijuana, at similar rates."
And that doesn't cover things like employment issues, voting issues, etc.
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but I'm only able to really talk from the perspective of low class / working class because that is my personal life experience. What you all are dealing with in the top 10% is a black box to me, thought what little I've seen is wildly misguided and silly, IMO.
Maybe, and I'm just throwing this out there, you should educate yourself outside of your personal experience?
I have no idea what you mean by top 10%.