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Originally Posted by iosys
Have her take free or paid programming courses online
Sounds like excellent advice. Last time I checked there are versions of C you can download for free, and a whole world of tutorials out there. I can gently suggest such things.
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Do not send her to the military.
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I think in general if you don't really want to be in the military, you shouldn't go.
A lot of people in my generation took the scholarships and did their time, knowing full well they would hate being in the military. All grew to regret that decision. The only exception was a friend who became a flight surgeon, served in Gulf War I. It wasn't easy and he certainly doesn't want to be doing it now, but it was a very important part of his life, is an important part of who he is now, and he's very proud of his service. I think that's kind of where you need to be.
There's at least an element of her that would make her proud to serve. If she comes back after four years with a line on her resume saying, "Spent the last two years at Tyndall developing the next-gen F22 flight simulator" and can claim she loved every minute of it, maybe it wouldn't be a bad choice.
Course, if she comes back saying, "I spent the last two years trying unsuccessfully to un-**** some ******ed outdated LAN at some backwards base hospital out in the middle of nowhere Nebraska" that will be another matter altogether I suppose.