Oh, I am relaxed.
If it helps your understanding, I can add some more smileys next time, so you do not get confused.
Helps?
Must be cause I am german (I can pull stereotypes too, haha), so I put arguments quite direct. Some people are known to take offense. But none is meant.
I am glad you have a great kid and let him develop.
IMHO one cannot argue that one assumption (some gender like thing a more than other gender) is "fair" to be said true, without actually looking on the connecting circumstances. Why do people like stuff? How do they develop their likes, etc.
For the actual topic at hand "Why dont more women play online poker" it migt be usefull to have a broader look at constructed gender identities and also the gender gap.
It´s defintely not going to be an easy answer.
In my personal opinion I had to face lots of verbal abuse at the tables, whenever I identified as a woman. Hence online, I will not reveal my gender identity.
I can certainly see why this discourages other women from playing.
The pictures used of women in poker are also very typicly showing beautiful women who fall into some sort of stereotype, usually young, sexy, slim, etc. Many female pros are shown in advertising as the sexy vixen, not the cool analytical player.
Men have usually more free time at their hand, due to gender gap in payments, they simply can afford to play more in their free time.
Also in many sterotypical relationships the unpaied carework (education of kids, raising and care for children, elderly parents, household, etc) are usually in the hands of the women, which leaves them even less time to play.
This is just a few roughly put together assumptions, not at all specific reasons I believe are 100% true. But I believe that answering the original questions it needs a deeper look into society.