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Originally Posted by SGT RJ
Male newbies may get harassed, but I'd venture to say the odds of a new female player getting SEXUALLY harassed are much higher than a males, or that the harassment includes sexually charged language.
A guy gets called a donk or a ****** or an idiot or a spewmonkey. Women get called bitches and whores and another word I'm not going to even type out. There's a huge difference between the two. The former are words that are generally insulting. The latter are words that are generally insulting TO WOMEN and are usually directed at women.
agree, just don't see a problem with it.
namecalling is a just a helpless way of expressing some frustration/aggression and it is up to the attitude/mindset of the person hearing those 'insults' to do whatever they want with it. taking it seriously and even personally and actually feeling insulted is not an option i would choose and I think everyone who chooses that option has a hard time getting a happy life in general while they will be busy creating all those problems for themselves. I think i posted something along the lines before, so sorry if it is repetitive:
no matter if it is at the tables, at the forums, at work, sports or familyrelated: it helps to work on your self-esteem and take what is to learn from situations and leaving the insults aside. you get nowhere in life if you get distracted/disencouraged by little things like insults that are just made to throw you off your course.
(obv. whenever i used 'you' i meant it in general and to noone in particular)