wow, i just read all of this after having taken a little vacation from the poker community. man, i really feel for you. that's a very sick story.
if it were me - even though i'm pretty sure I wouldn't have let it come this far -, i would seriously consider paying someone to have this guy raped by a gang of somalians like someone proposed, or have his fingers cut off like robert suggested himself. just be careful to have the finger sent to your first and not pay up front
seriously, that's a terrible story and i hope this guy gets what he deserves.