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03-05-2010 , 04:01 PM
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Edit: I checked and thankfully it wasn't you. And I saw that apparently the whole issue is that Cog lied in the chat to a random opponent?

Oh noez!

Seriously, GTFO.
You break my heart, Sejje.

Anyway, essentially yes, but are you seriously saying that lying is bad? I'm sure SOME people in this forums, those associated to HUSnG.com at least, would care whether their coach is a respectable and trustworthy person and would want their coaches to not lie to people that are potential or potentially past or current customers of their site. This is NOT a "RANDOM" person, and if someone asks if he's a coach, it's clear he's not a RANDOM person, he's a 2+2 reg (doesn't mean he's owed the truth neccesarily) or a CUSTOMER, so, NO, NO, this is NOT a "random opponent", Sejje. You are wrong.

Obviously I am NOT saying Cog Dis is not, but is it not fair to wonder if LYING puts this in question somewhat? It is something that can easily be answered and explained, but Cog Dis has posted in this thread and yet NOT explained WHY he lied. If he just said a white lie because he can't be bothered to talk, then sure, whatever, but NONE of this was done.

Go ahead and swear at me and tell me I am stupid too, but it doesn't deny the fact that you are glossing over details.
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03-05-2010 , 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Nostalgica
but this is really all there is to it...and just generally got insulted for no reason other than that he questioned the, I suppose, integrity, of a person they trusted/respected, and afaik is in fact trustworthy/respectable.
What you're trying to do here is make your friend's incoherent bull**** post look like it actually had a focus, which you deem "calling out Cog for lying."

Further, you think we're making fun of OP for being a bad player, playing micro stakes, etc etc.

Let's review the OP.

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Originally Posted by OreosAndMilk
Firstly let me start off by saying, yes I do get annoyed at people playing heads up when they say something ridiculous but I have never made a thread calling anyone out and probably never will again.
Not very relevant, just a prelude that is supposed to lend credence to this thread, because "he wouldn't normally do this."

Translation: "I'm a douche."

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Originally Posted by OreosAndMilk
Firstly you brag about having a 100k roll in your profile, why is it then that you're sitting at 10s 20s and 30s for your last few hundred games on stars, perhaps you're coaching/making a video? Also you're breakeven in these so well done.
Translation: "HAHA COG, YOU PLAY LOW STAKES AND SUCK AT THEM."

Seriously, didn't you just call us big jerks because we supposedly said this about OP? But here OP says it about Cog...

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Originally Posted by OreosAndMilk
Well if that is the case then why do you deny to be cognitive dissonance when you sit me when I ask you? Respond by saying "NO" in chat when I ask and then I get a friend to find out for me who says it is you. You're paid by your website to do those videos, why do you have to be such a tool denying who it is.
Ah ha! The "all there really is to it" point. As you can see this point didn't even warrant its own, exclusive paragraph. It also was not "all there was to it," it was one of many ******o arguments about why Cog is a joke.

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Originally Posted by OreosAndMilk
Then you continue to not bother responding to me but have the good sportsmanship to say "gg" at the end of the game but not bother to reply to anything else I say. Real Classy.
Here is where Cog's "class" actually gets called into question. OP is mad because he got the silent treatment. He is not going to be Cog's friend anymore.

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Fwiw I have no respect for you as an individual after these shenanigans.
shenanigans
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03-05-2010 , 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Nostalgica
None of this drama was necessary, .
so u guys decided to start a thread on it !??
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03-05-2010 , 04:09 PM
since when does being a coach gives you an obligation to tell everyone about it in the chat box?
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03-05-2010 , 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Nostalgica
You break my heart, Sejje.

Anyway, essentially yes, but are you seriously saying that lying is bad?
I'll assume that's a typo. I think it's bad in some contexts. At the poker table, if a bet is not involved, no I don't think it's bad. I certainly don't think that Cog hiding his identity is a moral failing. I do it too, to a large degree.

I don't coach, but I probably owe 2p2 more than Cog does.

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Originally Posted by Nostalgica
I'm sure SOME people in this forums, those associated to HUSnG.com at least, would care whether their coach is a respectable and trustworthy person and would want their coaches to not lie to people that are potential or potentially past or current customers of their site. This is NOT a "RANDOM" person, and if someone asks if he's a coach, it's clear he's not a RANDOM person, he's a 2+2 reg (doesn't mean he's owed the truth neccesarily) or a CUSTOMER, so, NO, NO, this is NOT a "random opponent", Sejje. You are wrong.
If Cog doesn't know him he's still pretty much random. Cog's responsibility as a poker coach is to provide training to his students. As a poker video maker, it's to make videos. That's it.

I mean maybe the site owners have more they want him to do, but my interpretation of his moral obligation: THAT'S IT.

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Originally Posted by Nostalgica
Obviously I am NOT saying Cog Dis is not, but is it not fair to wonder if LYING puts this in question somewhat? It is something that can easily be answered and explained, but Cog Dis has posted in this thread and yet NOT explained WHY he lied. If he just said a white lie because he can't be bothered to talk, then sure, whatever, but NONE of this was done.

Go ahead and swear at me and tell me I am stupid too, but it doesn't deny the fact that you are glossing over details.
I haven't glossed over details. I just went into great detail, in fact. We agree that OP says Cog lied ITC about who he was. I don't care, I don't think it's Cog's obligation to tell anyone. I don't think it's a moral issue.

If you dig back and look up my positions on morality, I think you'll find that I have a very strict moral compass and I do NOT like "shady" things. This is not one.

Lastly, this thread doesn't justify a serious response from Cog. If OP wasn't a worthless POS and could write a serious accusation without kindergarten-type insults and talking about how his feelings were hurt, then I could see it.
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03-05-2010 , 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted by genher
since when does being a coach gives you an obligation to tell everyone about it in the chat box?
as a coach i would feel obligated to sit op all the time and teach him a few things about poker.
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03-05-2010 , 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted by genher
so u guys decided to start a thread on it !??
Are you a f cking ******? Is it not extremely clear that I do not think this thread was a good idea at all, and that I don't want to take sides, and I'm just trying to put it into perspective?

Re: Sejje, yeah, you're right, and I suppose it was inevitable the thread ended this way especially considering the OP is not a regular poster, but I think I've at least added some logic to this and pointed out what I think was a lot of senseless bandwagon/bashing that was happening in this thread, and that's all I'm trying to do.

If you wanted to point and say, what's your problem, who cares if he lied or whatever, do you have too much time or something? Then yeah, I've said that myself after hearing about it, but there was more than this "lol whatever" mentality expressed. A lot more, some of it uncalled for.
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03-05-2010 , 04:25 PM




God some people love acting as if they got sand in their vaginas. For the record, I've only ever heard good things about Paul, and he's never done anything bad against me...so he's cool in my book.

@Cog: Always up for playing at midstakes against you, and I won't even call you a thief for taking some of my BIs. Just don't lie in chat or I'm gonna run to mommy and start crying like a little girl!
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03-05-2010 , 04:26 PM
Sorry I missed some posts because of internet...

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Lastly, this thread doesn't justify a serious response from Cog. If OP wasn't a worthless POS and could write a serious accusation without kindergarten-type insults and talking about how his feelings were hurt, then I could see it.
Okay, I don't think Cog is shady, whatever, but I think asking why someone who's supposed to be respectable or whatever lied is a valid enquiry, and that a simple short answer should be expected, explaining it.

I also do not think a person who is the nicest guy ever would "not bother with this POS". It's understandable if you do, as you're not a coach or whatever, but Cog? Isn't it strange considering everyone's saying he's the nicest guy ever but all he can do is make a joke without answering any of the OP's questions about Cog's integrity or whatever? Really, not even a "I just didn't want to talk" which would've easily EASILY shut the OP up? What just because everyone's bashing OP he can join in and pretend no questions were asked?

I say this partially because I was told there is more to this going on that what is being said because he's telling me something about getting to PokerStars or whatever.

Oh, and after all this, I'd stake him for a HU prop bet if you give OP odds, since everyone thinks he'll get crushed. Overreacting or not, popular with the "in" crowd or not, I do not consider it a "sick beat" that he's my friend, so that part of the thread can be solved in a hu4rollz everyone loves.
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03-05-2010 , 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Nostalgica
Okay, I don't think Cog is shady, whatever, but I think asking why someone who's supposed to be respectable or whatever lied is a valid enquiry, and that a simple short answer should be expected, explaining it.
If that's what was posted, I think he would have received a response.
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03-05-2010 , 04:40 PM
I'm not entirely sure about that, I think it's reasonable to have a short response if not for the OP at least to make any accusations more ridiculous than it already seems. Regardless, yeah, okay, OP acted douchey is what you're saying, okay.

I'm not trying to say OP is right, completely innocent and that everyone else is wrong, or that Cog Dis is NOT a great guy and such, and I certainly don't mean to go against everyone here, again, many posters I respect, etc

but I still I mean everything I've been saying, including my trust in the OP's skills which quite a few have tried to make fun of without knowing who he was (??), I just wanted to make these things clear. 's all.
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03-05-2010 , 04:41 PM
nobody cares about op's poker skills. seriously, nobody.
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03-05-2010 , 04:45 PM
I care.
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03-05-2010 , 04:55 PM
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I doubt any of this really matters, and nothing will come of this as he is not a reg poster as I am, so I am just risking being attacked myself to defend someone who doesn't care, but I believe in standing up for things, and also because this group mentality is, again, going out of hand, and some of the posters I respect are, too, assuming that the OP is a ****** simply because he was attacking someone they know/trust/whatever, without care.

That is all really. I shall now hand the drama back to you guys.
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You break my heart, Sejje.

Anyway, essentially yes, but are you seriously saying that lying is bad? I'm sure SOME people in this forums, those associated to HUSnG.com at least, would care whether their coach is a respectable and trustworthy person and would want their coaches to not lie to people that are potential or potentially past or current customers of their site. This is NOT a "RANDOM" person, and if someone asks if he's a coach, it's clear he's not a RANDOM person, he's a 2+2 reg (doesn't mean he's owed the truth neccesarily) or a CUSTOMER, so, NO, NO, this is NOT a "random opponent", Sejje. You are wrong.

huh
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03-05-2010 , 05:07 PM
Ok, it's probably time I mentioned this.
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Obviously he is such a nice guy that he is allowed to break the terms of service and none of you blink an eye. No problem guys keep on flaming me. I was playing against an opponent who I thought was somebody and was in fact somebody else - this breaks stars ToS whether it was a friend or not. I wonder if somebody did this to you would I come to your thread and post a picture of a fat lady, probably not.
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03-05-2010 , 05:13 PM
[ ] Fat lady ITT.
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03-05-2010 , 05:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Nostalgica
Okay, I don't think Cog is shady, whatever, but I think asking why someone who's supposed to be respectable or whatever lied is a valid enquiry, and that a simple short answer should be expected, explaining it.
Wrong. There is no reason to expect anyone to read through that mess of an OP. If he wants to learn how to write and try again, this time getting directly to his point instead of making some pissed-off rant, maybe someone will take it seriously.

He doesn't get a free pass just because he might have some kind of valid question buried in that gibberish. If he wants a person to answer his questions, he can act like a normal person when he asks them.

Normal people with valid inquiries generally don't start off with insults when all they want is an answer to their valid inquiry. Most normal people would just send Cog a private message instead of making a call-out thread.

Much better would be something like, "Hey, Cog told me he wasn't a coach when I asked him. What's up with that?"

Or, if he really wanted to get fancy, a private message: "Hi, Cog. You told me you weren't a coach when I asked you. What's up with that?"
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03-05-2010 , 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted by OreosAndMilk
Ok, it's probably time I mentioned this.
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Obviously he is such a nice guy that he is allowed to break the terms of service and none of you blink an eye. No problem guys keep on flaming me. I was playing against an opponent who I thought was somebody and was in fact somebody else - this breaks stars ToS whether it was a friend or not. I wonder if somebody did this to you would I come to your thread and post a picture of a fat lady, probably not.
Pretty ****ty of you to call him out, he still answers your question and you out him anyway.
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03-05-2010 , 05:18 PM
So you are calling Cog names and outing him because you faced a bad player instead of him...and he wouldn't acknowledge that in chat??? Lame dude, especially posting PRIVATE PMs on a public forum.

He even offered to kick his mate's ass if he misbehaved. I'm still not sure what bothers you, the fact that you thought you played a pro (which wouldn't be +EV if you're playing the 10s) or the fact that you played a bad player who's trying to rebuilt his roll. Either way, I don't see how Cog hurt you in any way. Outing him like this, and risking his livelihood on that site even though he hasn't done anything bad to you imo is beyond lame.

Please go away!

PS: Not really surprised about you making ******ed threads, not after reading this or this little gem.
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03-05-2010 , 05:19 PM
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Originally Posted by OreosAndMilk
Ok, it's probably time I mentioned this.

Obviously he is such a nice guy that he is allowed to break the terms of service and none of you blink an eye. No problem guys keep on flaming me. I was playing against an opponent who I thought was somebody and was in fact somebody else - this breaks stars ToS whether it was a friend or not. I wonder if somebody did this to you would I come to your thread and post a picture of a fat lady, probably not.
So why didn't you post this in the first place? It's like recording Obama telling you he likes to **** goats and then going off on your own to tell everyone he's got some weird fetishes. Then, when everyone rightfully calls you ******ed, you pull out your trump card of Obama admitting to ****ing goats.

You: "hey guys, this guy everyone respects is a joke"
Everyone: "o rly?"
You: "yeah he's a ****ing ******* **** him am i right??"
Everyone: "no"
You: "why isn't anyone agreeing with meeeeeeee "
Everyone: "gtfo"
You: "oh hey i forgot to say this in the first place but now I win, take that!"
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03-05-2010 , 05:21 PM
wait, is all this crying still about a 10$ donkament?
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03-05-2010 , 05:21 PM
I like how waterblank went busto and can't play right now, so he just resorts to talking **** about games he played a month ago. Good stuff.
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03-05-2010 , 05:23 PM
Neat, though. I actually wrote more accusing OP of coming with a mission and an axe to grind, but took it out because I thought it was too antagonistic.

If OP actually cared, he would have handled this much differently, I think.
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03-05-2010 , 05:23 PM
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wait, is all this crying still about a 10$ donkament?
Seems like it.
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