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Originally Posted by ButterflySymmetry
I’m not sure how clearly I can put this, but to make it simple for u most u guys let me explain a hypothetical...
If I wanted to go this route, I cd propose Sara to take the 60k upon herself and waive the $101,643 she owes me. Honestly, she wd b happy to do that.
If I went this route, where wd that leave me? Let me tell the misinformed. No debt, paid off house, and semi-retirement life.
What’s so complicated about figuring this out?
In theory in your current situation under individual arbitration this may be correct, and I hope that life continues this way for you indefinitely and the best for you. However variance occasionally happens. People become ill, physically or psychologically both of which could put a financial strain on, and reduce their ability to make further income, as well as some physical illness running up debt treating it. Sometimes Very happy functional couples randomly break down and divorce even in their 50’s,60’s, and sometimes beyond. Also, even in that situation you do have debt if married, maybe you have an iron clad pre-nup. That you took great precaution with. Maybe you’d get alimony in that situation from her having the higher income, either way you’d be paying child support most likely.
I’m all for the semi retired life, and not living on the American societal standards. But you have to prepare for the possibilities in the future of negative variance if you want to live on just 1k a month. If you put in a grind and assume around 3% swr from your portfolio, then at 400k invested in safe boring index’s you can withdrawal 1k per month for the rest of your life( most likely with low margin of failure) without much worry, and the. You can be semi-retired and any poker money is just gravy for you. My current goal is to grind out a 1mm life roll to crank out safely ~30k a year, and then just have any poker money be a bonus.
Have you checked out any of the early retirement forums on other sites? There are a lot of people out there trying to do the same thing you are.