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Originally Posted by DanteA
I think it's very hard to say if this or that is affecting your game most in golf or poker if you are a professional. I can just relate to myself, and while I am not a professional golfer I at least have scratch handicap, sometimes my best golf comes after I have hit a few bad shots in a row and really exploded. I probably play way worse poker when I am tilted than play bad golf when I am tilted. Also while the slightest mistake can be disastrous it can also be totally safe, you can make the next shot to save a good score etc.
It's probably very individual. We have a few golf pros in the golf forum and some of them probably also play poker, would be nice if they could chime in.
Yea, I should have been more clear in that I am speaking about the majority. There are obviously numerous exceptions. I only listed Tiger as the only one, because I consider his ability different. He actually plays better the more mad he gets. I've had my ass kicked many times by guys who were complete and utter hot heads. They steam, they get over it, and they move on. Tiger is a bit different, he just steams and crushes, and skips a lot of the getting over it part IMO. And it is impressive as hell to watch. But for the most part, when you see a top player visibly angry, they are usually in the process of losing whatever grip they had on the tournament.
With that said, nearly every top mental coach/guru/whatever focuses primarily on being as even keel as possible throughout. Sure anger will strike for a lot of guys when bad shots happen, but letting go of it as soon as possible and never really reacting to it (staying in the present yada yada) is generally considered ideal. Like you said, everyone is different though, and ultimately, especially at the higher levels, it is about finding what allows you to play your best golf when the lights get bright. For some guys, that is allowing yourself to steam, for most, it is not reacting at all.
And not that it matters really, and not sure if you were implying I was or wasn't, but I played professionally for a number of years. Competed nationally as a junior, was on a full ride at a D1 school, played lots of mini tours and failed at q school a couple times. Throughout I sought out lots of mental game work via professionals and personal study. So I do have a decent amount of experience of which I'm drawing from. But again with that said, it doesn't mean that much, because everyone is different like you said.