I wrote that I’ll be extremally busy in a next few days. I kept in private that I am searching for a new flat. Sometimes I like to write about progress and how everything works sometimes I just prefer to show what I’ve done. In this case I just want to show you guys some results.
The more courageous we are the less we try to control future. Don’t get me wrong, for me controlling future and creating them is two different things. I am a big fun of creating our future I work toward my goals every day and do my best to achieve my dream goals. I used to love controlling my future. I used to feel comfortable with that but as the time goes I care less and less about it. Is it a good thing? I don’t know and I don’t care that much. The longer I live the more confident I feel with my goals. The more confident I feel about them the less I try to control my future.
To give you a good example for this, let’s say in both case you want to become a millionaire. When you try to control your future, you spend every minute on planning, on thinking how something can work. What you should do. Second approach is far different. You plan a bit, you don’t create a very specific plan. You know that you can adapt no matter what. You are confident with your skills and that’s why you just need to know where you are going. All you need to do is do your job, search for new opportunities and adapt. You don’t care about future that much. Of course in both case you work hard on your goals.
At the begging of this year I told myself this year is going to be a year of courage and changes. For f.ck’s sake I even didn’t realize what I wish for…
I am happy with my achievement of previous year. I wasn’t fluent at English. I was at second worst group in my school. Now I am far better, I did two academic years in 3/4 year and now I am 4 groups higher. Math and PC was hard for me and last year I was second / third best in my group and gave tuition. I saved some money and other boooooring stuf. Even that year was good I wasn’t too happy about it. I felt that something was missing in my life.
I didn’t feel good with my life, I didn’t care about it that much. I didn’t feel alive. That’s why I told myself: dude you have nothing to lose: gogogogo. It’s funny when we think we have something to lose we act more safe but when we realize that we have nothing to lose we are ready for everything. Do I had something? Hell yeah but when you don’t care about your life and you don’t live your dreams you still have nothing to lose and even if you live your dreams you can always have bigger and wilder dreams..
I work with Gordon for a three weeks now. I am really glad we are working together and I knew I need to change but I didn’t know that I’ll change that much. I set up my life for achieve just one goal now, become successful NL1k HU player. Everything else matter less even if it still very important for me. I change everything to support me better with this goal. I gave up on of my dream goal. I was a Camp America member and I had an opportunity to go to America for holiday. I needed to give up on it because it would took too much time. I needed to move out. Of course moving out when you’re NL4 HU player is stupid and risky but do I care? My life totally depend on this one goal so I need to be hundred percent sure I’ll do everything to achieve this goal. I may have some struggles and problems at the beginning but it’s totally worth it. I can win totally new quality of life.
When I think about my old problems they make me smile. I used to spend too much time on skype, facebook, 9gag and other websites. I was playing web browsers games and do other unproductive stuff. Now I don’t have time for that stuff, I needed to give up on them. I use my private skype account less and less often, I rarely use facebook and do other things that I used to do. I don’t have too much free time but I wake up with f.cking great smile on my face almost every day. I feel much better than I used to and now I value my life and time a lot. I play and learn poker, write blogs, work out, study for uni, hang out with friends, date with chicks, there is really not too much free times left still I don’t care about it because I feel better. I feel much better I happier and I am very glad that I discovered such a great strength within me.
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Tomorrow I'll add some photos. I am still fighting with PC. I borrow from my friend PC who has 2.2GHZ and 2 GB ram so it's not that bad but it's so f.cking unstable that it makes me insane mad because it frezze all the time. Usually three - four frezzes every hour. I did register cleaning twice (3k register errors) I am updating that b.tch 140 windows update... Tomorrow I'll defragment it and improve few things so it should work better. Today I bought 4Mbs internet and I am glad that I got rid of that. In my appartment I had cable internet but it was insane slow. My phone load gmail 4 times faster that this ****...