Damn I was hoping this thread would become a bit more positive this time... Alas, I shall respond to everyone:
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Originally Posted by Masq
"we" or you?
Not sure how you can justify sending money to support other people when you can't even support yourselves.
Can you not see your friends in an outdoor setting where you don't have to spend money? ie. a park
It's pretty easy to justify: even though I'm not particularly rich, I'm still in a much better situation than a lot of people. At no point in the past 6 months have I ever had to worry about not being able to afford food or medical expenses.
On a world scale, I am relatively very rich and very lucky, so it makes sense to help out the less fortunate, especially when they're my in-laws.
Nah so there's been a 5km rule for a long time in my city, and most of my friends live at least 30kms away from me. Plus there were previously rules that you weren't allowed to see people from outside your household. It's only very recently that my city started to get this pandemic under control (we actually went from over 10,000 active cases in my city just 2 months ago, to now fewer than 100 active cases today) and we're starting to ease these restrictions significantly. So finally, meeting up with friends is about to be legalised lol.
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Originally Posted by Jimmy Busto
I bet her dads 'medical problems' will last a very very very long time. lol
Sadly, yes. Ever since my father-in-law got out of ICU, he's had some permanent issues. He only made about a 70% recovery. He's stable but he still gets migraines and had to permanently quit his job (he used to work as a lawyer). So unfortunately, his medical problems will last him for the rest of his life, and we're the only ones who can support him, since he has no savings.
Thanks Fodersneso! This is the kind of positive and uplifting response that I need <3
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Originally Posted by gh0ulpatrol
Bro, YOU don't have a job. You're playing WoW between 30 minute 5nl sessions. You've burned through your "nest egg" you acquired from sunrunning over a super small sample by ordering food. Your city is opening up and your first thought is...to go spend more money? Why wouldn't your first thought be to get a job so that you aren't a massive burden on everyone around you?
Also, since you have seemed to resign yourself to permanently supporting your in laws, why not move them into your mom's apartment? It's not like they or you are strangers to living in cramped living quarters, and it's not like anyone has a job they need to stay in town for. With the money they'll save from not paying for housing they can pay for their own food and "medicine". Win-win. Move the sister and brother in law that you're overpaying for their meals in too, the more the merrier. If you're going to be a sucker, at least minimize your outlay.
Only certain things in my city are opening up, unfortunately. Believe me: if the poker room was to open up tomorrow, I would be lining up outside, ready to grind $1/$3 NL. But it's not. The only things opening up are outdoor restaurants and cafes for now. So earning money isn't an option; only spending money is.
It's not possible for my in-laws to come here. They live in Thailand and it's impossible for them to get a visa to come here.
And I still have a nest egg left: I still have $6k AUD. So everything is still fine. I can afford to spend 1 month just grinding the micros, chilling, meeting up with friends, etc. I'm not in a desperate situation just yet where I need to immediately jump to 100nl and start earning money to pay the bills.
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Originally Posted by wacker1913
I think it would be more +EV to move to Thailand with your mom and wife. As a NL0,05 grinder you can make a living there and crabs would be your daily meat...
We've actually considered this. The only issues are:
1) I'll stop getting welfare from the Australian government once I move to Thailand.
2) We must commit to a 3+ month stay. There's a travel ban where Australians aren't allowed to leave our country unless we intend to stay somewhere long-term.
3) The initial costs are quite high: we have to pay for a 14 day quarantine at a hotel in Thailand upon arrival, and flights are very expensive right now, too.