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Originally Posted by TroothSayer
Why are ladyboys preferred?
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Originally Posted by poker_triad
This is all speculation of course as I've never asked anyone directly. But the common wisdom is that when they get all their work done they end up looking more like the women the Chinese prefer than actual Cambodian girls, namely white skin. Or they're all just a bunch of poofters.
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Originally Posted by 5 south
It's an interesting dynamic in my 10+ years in SEA I've never been able to figure out but I put more brain power into what I'm going to eat for breakfast than this subject but it is a curiosity.
chinese men don't view it as gay, it's kinda funny, it's very much a conservative society and yet thailand will come up in a office setting and some guy will casually mention going there and banging a ladyboy and general reaction would be no different from his saying he had some really spicy pad thai
i've also asked gay men and they are always like "ew we like dudes and don't find women attractive, this is like a straight guy being into really into a woman specifically because she looks like a dude and can pee standing up"
like triad said, once they have the work done that the average ladyboy is easily 2x more attractive than the average cis female, one thing that made traveling in SEA difficult is my 5'10" chinese girlfriend who's pretty attractive with a nice figure imo would constantly be confused for a ladyboy among tourists (locals wouldn't make this mistake, i think mostly cause they can tell she's Chinese based on looks) "i'd sometimes overhear comments about that rickroll guy having gone local even traveling with one" and she would hear it all the time because people wouldn't assume she's fluent in english - it was sometimes a fun novelty but definitely stays in your subconscious but then again going around proclaiming your gf is a female is even weirder imo
while i definitely agree they are way hotter, i also personally don't get the appeal of taking off their panties and finding a penis, i can't imagine it being an out of sight out of mind thing in bed the way it can be visually and don't get it - remember asking some ladyboy connosieurs in the thailand thread about a year ago what the appeal was and they definitely said they're not there for the dick, but it's not something they just ignore as they'll order everything on the menu so to speak
i think it's just people who are bi-curious or more adventurous, where it's either a safe zone to experiment without feeling gay guilt or for others it's the price to pay to be with a woman 10x sexier than any cis females they've consentually slept with i've genuinely never really understood it though, maybe it's like a bucket list thing for some people?
cause then again, the ugly ones and pre-work ones seem to do just fine as well so there's clearly a demand for it beyond simple aesthetics