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Good luck mate will be reading
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Jersey is like part of England but in France near Normandy or something like that lol. It's definitely not USA. Ignore if you were just trolling and gl with the challenge.
One second of hope, that was enough
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2016.07.06 Quitting the 9 to 5?
I hope this will not turn into a rant, but I wanted to share my thoughts about my current situation.
It has been already 2 years since I left my home country Lithuania and moved to Germany. The last 2 years I worked full time at the same place. In the beginning it was tough, didn't fit in at all, almost did quit. However it turned out that one person quit his job and I took his place, since then it was kinda ok.
This year like I mentioned earlier I had a big argument with my "boss" / CEO. That was in April, it was a private issue, that has nothing to do with work. Since then I have completely lost trust in him and the relationship was broken.
Each week at work we had friction between another, you could cut the tension with a knife. He used passive aggressive ways to basically hurt me: assign some ****ty jobs, get angry at me for small mistakes, that were not even my fault to begin with and etc.
After a few weeks it seemed that things have calmed down, but it didn't last long, soon at least one day during the week we got into an argument. So we have now the month of July, 3 months have passed since the incident. Overall things got better, but this emotional rollercoaster bs took a tole on me. Last Friday we argued again, he said I cannot envision working in the long term with you, I cannot picture that we will trust each other again. At that time I had enough and said that I am quitting , because I had enough of these arguments and cannot take it anymore. We agreed that I will work 3 months more and we will part ways.
This week arrived at work and he was not happy and regretted his decision, because he cannot control his emotions and acted on the moment. Basically he tries now to convince me to stay and find a way to continue, but I already stated that I am done and don't see any point in staying here. The decision to quit on my part was logically planned, I was already on it at the beginning of April. Decided to wait and observe things, but it just didn't get better.
Here are some other facts about my current situation:
- For 160 hours of work I get 1450 EUROS
- I live in a small village with 500 people
- I literally don't have any friends, just coworkers
- My monthly expenses are about 800 EUROS
- At the moment I am not liking the environment at work
- I am not satisfied with my salary, I feel I am quite underrated
- For my hobbies I have only limited time on workdays
- I feel not happy with my current life and feel that something is just not right
So I have been debating for quite some time now if its time to try something new. This year I have returned to poker, the results are not impressive, but I am quite positive that with enough hard work it will turn around. I am also actively searching for other income streams online and slowly building them up.
If I think about all these factors I think the time is now quite good to try follow my dreams instead of a steady paycheck. I have about 12 months worth of living expenses saved up, no dept,loans or commitments, can speak almost perfect german, 24 years old and flexible. After being employed 2 years and then quitting I will get up to 12 months of income support after losing the job.
First I need to change the living environment, because living in a small village depresses the hell out of me. The city of Coblence seems kinda nice:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Koblenz
Its not huge like Cologne, but very compact and also cheaper to live.
It will of course be more expensive to live there, I estimate about 1k EUROS for everything each month. At first I will grind for like 6 months and see how it goes, it was also always my dream to grind full time for like 6-12 months, never had the chance to do it. I will also see how my other ventures are going. If I see its not going like expected I will begin searching for a part time job, just to take the pressure away of paying the living expenses. Also after some time maybe I will try applying for some full time jobs if everything with the grind fails and see how its feeling working at other companies.
If after a year I will see that things didn't turn out as expected, I will pack my bags and go back to Lithuania and live with my brother in the capital Vilnius and try to establish myself there.
Would be nice to hear your opinions also, but I think its not worth continuing at my current job, because its mentally draining and I don't have the energy anymore to deal with that. Better to invest that 160 hours per month in myself than to bet on things getting better
Last edited by Gatavas19; 07-06-2016 at 05:43 PM.