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Originally Posted by 6bet me
It's actually not as easy as you think.
Imagine you've been card dead, you haven't played a single hand in over 1 hour, people on the table are literally making comments like "he's just waiting for Aces", then finally, you're dealt a hand like A7s in early position. You're going to be tempted to open this, even knowing that it's barely a winning hand.
In my first session of live of just over 2 hours, I played like 4 hands.
Whenever I saw a marginal hand or relatively weak hand from EP, I immediately dumped it. I've always been a pretty patient person, and it probably helps that I've also played so many hands online already. I dont really feel the need to play hands that will get me into marginal/-EV/BE spots.
Even if i get tempted during my future sessions, im sure i'll have the self-restraint to just fold. Tbh, im not a big gambler and never have been. I actually hate gambling. And after I've played poker for so long, I hate it even more. I've played blackjack once once I turned 21. I exactly broke even after an hour. I dont think I would play another hand. It didnt feel fun to me, and knowing that long-term I'm -EV even with perfect basic strategy, made me want to play even less. The only way you can win at BJ is to count cards, but casinos are trained to learn who are counting cards and kick you out/ban you. Even with card counting, you only have a 51-53% MAX edge on the house, assuming you play completely perfect. Even when my friend kept going to casinos and kept asking me to play BJ, i flat out refused. It just isnt fun to me.
I've played slots for lol $3. That's it, just to try it for my 21rst. I didnt feel thrill at all, and basically I played knowing I was flushing it down but I just wanted to experience it. Even when I was young, I've never gambled during school/HS or those traditional Vietnamese gambling games either. that a lot of Viet people played. I never even wanted to try.
Even when I first played poker at 10NL/25NL, I was such a big nit and scared of losing money that I was playing something like 13/11 or 14/12, although as I've already mentioned i've tried all play styles from 13/11 to 28/24. I've always been a nit with money, except for like partying/eating out/family/friends. Mostly wrt to gambling.
So no, after playing my first session and my overall history with gambling, I don't think I'd have that big of a problem folding for an hour straight with people snickering, "he's waiting for aces." I hate losing money. I despise it.
Every time I lost in poker, I felt a little sad. When I went on downswings, I got really stressed out. Which is normal. but when I won money, whether it was 1 BI, 4 BI, 3BI, most of the times I literally felt nothing. I felt empty. I didn't get a "thrill" or any type of happiness (if I did it was very slight). I asked other people how they felt when they won money or if they felt happy when they won. I'd get responses like, "It felt amazing," or "Of course I was happy". Me? I felt empty, for the most part. Of course, I was happy and proud that I was so good at something at such a young age, and being able to destroy the stakes so quickly which is mostly unheard of past BF. But yeah, I guess I'm not normal and I don't really have that much gamble in me. When I play poker, most of the time I'm thinking about is how can I trick people into giving me their stacks, how to trick them into hero-calling, how to maximize EV, not donking off/spewing off my stacks with bluffs. Of course I do tilt from time-to-time but tbh my tilt control is probably better than 80-90%+ of players. Except for the one time I was rolled for 10NL and shotted 25NL from tilt 3-4 years ago, I never played higher than the game I was rolled for or tilt shotted. Did it ever cross my mind? Of ****ing course lol.
A7s isn't "barely a winning hand" from EP. It's -EV.
Who cares what people at the table are saying? When you get AA and open to 5-6x, you'll still get 8 donks calling. LOL. Hyperbole ofc, but they wont fold. That's how you win money at live. Be patient. And then when you keep getting trash hands, keep being patient. Get good hands, value bet. Don't bluff. Don't spew. ->>>>> print money.
Rinse and repeat
Also. Those 3-bets weren't that great.
A9s is a pretty standard defend vs a BTN open. It's too strong to be 3b bluffing. Save it for A2s-A5s, possibly A6s. Look at it this way. Most BTN players are opening any Ax. So when you 3b with A9s, they fold A2-A9o, and possibly weaker suited aces if they are nitty (I did that). So you are getting weaker hands to fold, but what better hand exactly are you folding? You're letting your opponent make less mistakes, and if the BTN 4-bets you that's really annoying too. You need some suited aces in your flat range. I'd recommend BB vs BTN like A2s-A5s, maybe A6s 50/50 doesnt really matter imo, AJs+ is a 3b. A10s and A6s are basically on the cusp of being good for flatting and good for 3b, so it's up to you but doesnt really matter, you could also mix.
A6s BTN vs CO is okay but I'd prefer to just 3b A4s/A5s and A10s+, but in your current state where you are trying to minimize variance, it seriously isn't okay.
Just 3-bet for value/merged & maybe some good bluff hands like A4s/A5s and 76s-109s, 75s-108s BB vs SB, and play good hands, especially on Zone and when you need to minimize variance. You're playing with fire and asking to get your roll destroyed playing 16% 3-bet.
Last edited by Minatorr; 07-23-2018 at 04:56 AM.