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Originally Posted by IntenseDawg
No problem. Make sure you specifically ask Stars about why your account can't accept real money transfers.
I did
Thanks again !
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Originally Posted by Nohyhovina
yeah man. Unblock it, I would also send few dollars
Hope to see it fixed soon, appreciate your help and thanks for reading.
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Originally Posted by reraise85
Well that was one of the best posts ever written,**** the haters mate!id advise against gettin married at 21 just tell her u ain't got the money end of story,if she leaves or gets ****ty she ain't the one bro,gl to u
I thinked about this too before and i told her like this too, if i not get the money by that time, i can't to marry. She immediately start crying. I told her i can do it and she believe in me. We planned a really cheap wedding, i should be able to do it. In the beginning it would be a big expensive wedding, but she changed it all so we could marry.
Even if i aint got the money, she wouldn't leave me, but her family will come between us for sure and she will have problems with the people from her work as well. That's just how religious they are, it's pretty mind blowing. And family is everything here.
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Originally Posted by SuperSized
Bro, wow. Seems like you are a decent player. You should probably try to put aside 3 months living expenses. That means don't get married right now. No big expenses, lose the motorbike, it's an expense you can't really afford.
Try to get staked so you have access to some money for living and less stress. Play only games for which you are properly rolled. That means minimum 100 BIs not including the money you have set aside for living expenses. If you don't have it right now, get staked, work hard, cut expenses.
If she loves you, she will understand you don't have the money right now to get married. You can't even support yourself, let alone the both of you. Put on some big boy pants and tell her how it is.
Stop buying her items. I think you are buying them for her because you are afraid she will not love you or leave you if you stop. If she is genuine, she will understand. Buy her flowers once in a while to let her know you care.
Don't lie to your family. In the long run, you will regret it. Be honest; they will still love you.
You are absolutely right. She does understand me if i not have the money, she just hopes we can do it. It's her family and work who not understand this. It's important for her she not loses her work and have problem with her family.
I completely stopped buying stuff that is not needed, the only stuff i buy is things we really need. Im happy she is ok with it and wants it to be like this too.
Yes i should not lie to my family, they will probably eventually know, i hope that time is when im financialy stable. But telling my parents now is just a bad idea, my mother is very strict and would never allow i stay here one more day and she would send my dad come bring me back. Not care about anything else. Which is a normal thought for a mother. But she would not understand i want this life i have now with her and everyone around me.
I could just ask my parents for hey pls give me $600 for a return ticket, say sorry, go back home, find a 9-5 job, play poker on the side, make enough money and go back thailand. I could not do that and leave her alone in thailand like that, leave her having problems with her family and work, when there might be a way out of this so everything will be ok and i can grind higher stakes so im able to make a decent monthly income.
Once i got into $1.5 games it's difficult to get out of it when i have to keep withdraw money from my account for living expenses and knowing i have to keep win and win again is emotionaly a lot harder.
I told myself i will never gamble my last money, i would try to grind it out.
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Originally Posted by Alex Wice
i dont know about the sleeping quickly part, but the allergic to money part is 100% true, decent chance this dude is getting played even.
also dont sink all your money into gifts and then have no money to aggressively move up in hypers. you have 10% evroi pre, if you aggressively move up you can be doubling or quadrupling your hourly for example.
Thank you for reading, as im someone who look up to u and often observe your games. It's kind of a honor to have a reply from u.
I hope i can move up, it's all i need really. If i reach $200 in pokeraccount and have all my monthly expenses paid, i will take a shot at $3.5 and allow me to drop till $150 if i have a bad start.
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Originally Posted by sanko33
what a story if it is true...
Good luck with it but you definately need to follow suggestion from people with more experience in life Get help from the player in your area at least to understand the all situation.
Especially for marriage commitment, the minimum to know is what marriage means in that country.
For the rest good luck and if the story is true and confirmed by members, I'll contribute with some $s at you BR too
Thank u for the advice, u definetely right and will be joining a skype group here in chiang mai.