Just got caught up.
Curry story is funny. Galfond is the hero of all time!
Hope you've been feeling better lately.
As the master of long distance relationships, and dating people who don't know much about poker lifestyle and stuff, I can agree that it could be tough. Hope you figure something out.
Do you play any HU PLO btw? Played a little bit of round of each and it's so fun. God I've missed playing HU online, too bad it's dead.
Speaking of anxiety, I have wanted SO long to start meditating. Even downloaded headspace from a year ago but haven't tried it once. Procrastination is real.
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RaydeN08 your heart is in the right place, and I somewhat agree with the comments about playing poker, but it seems you have no experience with mental health problems so don't realise how ignorant your comments are.
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I mean, if your mind is weak as ****, obviously you wont overcome it.
To some extent this is true, in that you need to be determined to fix it. However anxiety disorders aren't caused by being weak minded, they are caused by your mind not developing the correct coping mechanisms to deal with stress. Further to this, overcoming panic attacks isn't about being strong minded, it is about recognising how you are feeling, identifying things in your life that cause you stress and really considering why they are stressful. The way you think about situations is key.
Yeah man that's completely out of line. I know you mean well, but meaning well doesn't mean jack if you say things like that.
The entire means by which we value and quantify "strength" and "weakness" is biased to preexisting temperament.
What exactly does saying "that is weak" help achieve? You genuinely think saying things like that will make someone buck up and just improve? are you kidding me, have you read this entire thread and decided "wow OP clearly doesn't realise he has a problem that he should try deal with let me tell him!"???
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And most important stuff, your girlfriend will eventually dump you because you are ev- for her.
****, are you for real. You decided of all things
this is the most reasonable to tell someone who is clearly engaging with their mental health and anxieties over it? Telling someone he's ****ed, and his life is going to implode, yeah that's nice.
For what it's worth, as OP knows, I have, and many of my close friends, have dealt with mental health issues our entire lives (me most prominently last decade or so), and while it's basically inescapable that we have moments of lows, life is not about being perfect all the time, and overall we're able to lead happy lives. Our low points don't define us, it is just one fragment of our existence.
It's not up to rando online people who know nothing about the situation to decide if someone who has mental health issues is +EV or -EV to be dating. To suggest that people who are neurodivergent or mentally ill or have problems of any sort are intrinsically "worth less" at least in the dating aspect, that they are unloveable or less loveable, or second pickings... wow are you serious? You don't realise this is basically hate speech?
Of COURSE these issues can make a person less compatible dating-wise. So can anything, so can being a successful lawyer, doctor, or any profession. It's about compatibility, and I can tell you there are plenty of people who understand or relate more to people with mental health issues than those who do not.
You might think this is no big deal, but **** like this being said to OP and people all over dealing with anxiety is what makes it hard for many people to face these issues head on and not be ashamed or embarrassed about it. It's okay to have what most consider "flaws" as long as you work with them or around them to have a happy life style.
**** like this is what causes people do do stuff like suppress issues, or not take medication, etc, because they think it's "weak" to be "one of those people" who are mentally ill or need drugs. You might think I'm overreacting, but sentiments like that literally gets people killed.
Anyway back on track, won't be at the Vic for a week or two since my partner is visiting, take all the money while you have the chance to not get cold jammed on