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Originally Posted by rickroll
don't want to delve into your relationships but this has been bugging me for a while
if this was a list of what has already happened and what you expect to happen then fine
but another way to read this is that there are implications that having a million dollars solves or overcomes whatever problems you had together
if it's the former rather than the latter then wish you all the best, if it's the latter then i'd suggest taking some more time alone to really think about what you want and what makes you happy before doing anything about trying to rekindle - make sure you're truly at a place where you're now used to, comfortable, and accepting of the fact you are single before you try to change that situation imo
glgl on the next stream, last one was not ideal but there are much worse punts out there and most of us itt have made that same mistake as well, use that lesson to sharpen your knives for the next time
Was waiting for the right time to discuss this.
Wonder if I said….
“It was all in the plan to sell the house, put monies on mana, take some time apart, make a milly, and get back before New Year.” Because as bizarre as it sounds, it kind of was.
Sara and I needed some time apart. It was apparent w our communication and actions.
The 6 or 7 months living apart has helped. During this time, we continued to work together discussing some of our issues. We hv a long history that is sacred and special to us.
So nice I married her twice! Now I’m gonna need a second line to this rhyme. “…so nice, I married her twice. Separated once, but not outdone. Got back together, for one last run.” <— we will go w that for now.
I’ll be moving back in New Years. What I missed most was not spending the max time possible w the kids. I realized now I’m willing to sacrifice a little on a not-so-perfect relationship to spend more time w my kids. In addition, my oldest, Mya, 18, was taking on some brother and sister responsibilities that she shdnt hv to. I shd b there doing that.
Plus I’m a millionaire now, she wd get half. Just joking.
I truly do love Sara. She has been there since dropping acid in college lol. She isn’t the best at showing her love, but her loyalty says it all. She is worth better efforts from me as well.
Mayb im not fit for marriage and wasn’t wild bout getting remarried, but we are here now. If Sara was typing right now she wd say, “why do u hv to b so difficult?”
I wd agree. I’m not perfect.
Last edited by ButterflySymmetry; 12-30-2021 at 10:12 AM.