You’re probably not in a good state for most of your sessions. During those times, you’re distracted, and your phone might be nearby. You’re angry, frustrated or impatient, and it shows in your play. You’re bored. You’re restless. You’re pressured. You’re one of many things, and you don’t think that any of them are good, if you’re being totally honest. So, that’s the setup. If that doesn’t fit, then don’t bother going on reading.
How could you improve?
You could start introducing a morning routine. You could start warming up properly. You could start playing fewer tables. You could start playing shorter sessions. You could start taking more breaks. You could work on your game. You could work on your mindset. You could work on your state. You could cool down properly. You could start working on your sleep quality.
There are two types of people. Both types get new information on a regular basis. Both types learn something from it. One type learns something useful, something that makes them grow, and the other type learns something useless, something that makes them shrink. You know anybody like this?
You get coolered and lose a big pot. You feel terrible about that.
If you’re type 1 you learn from this that you need to run better in order to feel better.
If you’re type 2 you learn from this that you need to toughen up in order to feel better.
You play a longer session than you expected, and towards the end of the session you lose three big hands quickly, which means that you’re now down a bit instead of being up a bit.
If you’re type 1 you learn from this that you’d need to be more lucky in order to spend a nice evening after a long session.
If you’re type 2 you learn from this that planning sessions with set time frames maximizes the chance of you spending a nice evening those times that you really want to do that.
You have bad results for a couple of weeks, running bad, making some bad plays and making some ill timed plays.
If you’re type 1 you learn from this that you’re probably bad and that if even you can’t win easily anymore then poker is dying.
If you’re type 2 you learn from this that you need to work harder in order to feel better, or that you may need to quit if working harder isn’t an option.
If you’re type 2, then we probably don’t hear much from you. You don’t complain about bad variance, you don’t write posts about the “fact” that poker is dying. You’ve long looked for quality input in order to improve your game and your mental game, and because of that you’ve got access to a great group of people. You work out regularly, you meditate and you work many hours a week, every week. You’ve got ways to work on your game that work for you, and you know how you can get into a good state for your poker sessions.
If you look up, or scroll up, you'll see who I was describing in the first paragraph. If that fits you, then you're type 1. If it fits you sometimes, then you're type 1 - sometimes. There's always room to improve. If you know that, then you've had a moment in your life when you learned it, which means that you DIDN'T learn that you're hopeless, or stupid, which means that in that moment, you were type 2. Well done
You can start practicing becoming type 2, which is what I call mental game coaching, whether you do it by yourself or pay somebody for it. Because as somebody wise once said:
Since most problems are created by our imagination and are thus imaginary, all we need are imaginary solutions.
You can start now. There's nothing stopping you.
Last edited by theSimonman; 10-11-2019 at 06:42 AM.