I guess I'm extremely lucky to have a wife who totally understands that if I'm playing I cant speak. She does call me at the worst times so I simply say I cant talk and shes cool with it. But she isnt a nagging type and lets me do what I like, shes great
Coop we are on Skype/fb and never really chat - seriously just tell her to leave you be and if she cant understand it, then turn your phone off. It does seem like a volatile relationship from what Ive seen on FB, continually engaged, unengaged etc. She needs to chill as she sounds needy and naggy, that is not cool. Balance is the key to life, tell her you need your time to work otherwise all the holidays/nice things are gone - how would she like to end up with a wasteman who is broke because he doesnt put in work?