You know, different strokes for different folks. Stories of people like you and Marty who clear off six figures of makeup and become bosses are few and far between. I could probably name twenty people who build up a ton and either quit or become withered for every one I know (basically you and Marty).
Some would say the backer and the horse that build up 100k+ should both have done more worrying. I personally never get depressed from poker or rage and smash anything. Worst will be some cuss words. Still have a healthy personal life as well. I just get upset and mope sometimes when I lose 20k! I multiply the losses over a year and always come up with a gross result
Just think it's shortsighted to expect everyone to be as even keel as you considering people have committed suicide due to this game and stuff like the stock market, which is the other extreme I guess.
But your advice is appreciated. I will try to cross over more to your way of thinking for sure. Stress is not a good thing.