I don't know where I'm going, but I know just where I've been. - Whitesnake
note: I dislike sympathy, and appreciate but need few words of encouragement.
Month to date: 26 hours,
-$31.
I was geeked for tonight's session. I had a Friday night dinner lined up from 8p-11p, and I altered my sleep schedule to wake up at 6p, with the intention of playing poker all night after the meal and a glass or two of Knob Creek.
Session lasted 00:46, lost my $200 and didn't wan't to press my short roll and reload due to the game being half short and mostly nitty. Which I didn't mind when I sat down! There was one wild player to my direct right, and I anticipated a night of fold-fold-fold.
I'm dealt Q
Q
in the SB. CO open limps, BTN (wild player) bets $12. I bet $40, BTN calls. Flop 5
6
7
, mostly gin. I tank for literally 5 seconds and my opponent says, "It's on you," and I softly reply, "I know the rules." which gets a chuckle from the drunk to my direct left. I bet $60, he calls. Turn 7
and I bet $135 all-in, he calls after a moment. River 4
. Guess what he had!
No biggie.
I come from the land of American online poker pre BF so there's literally nothing surprising or tough to swallow regarding this game. I've had some annoying breaks in "life" the last few years and feel indifferent about a lot of things. I've had a few illnesses that have been debilitating to an extent but have also forced myself to toughen up and become a pretty strong dude. I've had more bad relationships with women than good, struggled with other inter-personal affairs along with keeping a job for more than a few months at a time.
But more visceral, is the poker god that seems to hate me the past few months. I've consistently collided with sets and stupid stuff like the hand I shared and it hasn't yet been reciprocated yada dada dada. When I experience mental game fishery of my own I get stomped and when I don't I've struggled anyways, which has been a theme off the tables too. Do good, meh things happening. Do bad, total devastation.
But I've also been working hard on myself doing the introspective dance and all. I realized I was a pretty toxic (I'm overly hard on myself
) fellow and needed to learn how to be kinder and make friends. Most of my friends are people I've known since childhood, several being thieves and lowlife cheats. They aren't dangerous people, and I'm light-years ahead of them in terms of smarts, so their delinquencies and stuff are perfectly predictable and sad yet amusing.
A few months ago I asked myself, "what do people like?". The answer is openness and honesty, so I went way out of my comfort zone to experiment on this revelation and to attempt to outsmart my brain and teach it a new way to be. I did this in convenience stores and supermarkets mostly. At checkout, instead of saying "good, superficial charm, and you?" when cashiers asked me how it was going, I started to share details of what I'd been doing that very day and what was going on in my life. I made no effort to tell interesting stories, or relate what I was saying to the present moment. I just talked. And not shockingly, the workers were receptive and shared their own feelings back with me.
And suddenly I was connecting with strangers and
happily verbally communicating with people in real life.
So I've been building off that and mingling with as many people as I can. Hoping to acquire information, build friendships, find a job(?), but mostly maintain my happiness. I no longer feel like an alien.
And I have some gifts too, but they're mostly difficult to put into words, and hardly monetize-able without becoming a sleazy person, which I don't think I am. I gotta find something substantial and sustainable in this life. A good woman, a career, a family, love, all that stuff! And I will, because I'm a hard-headed person with a soft spirit, and if I always seem to know what people are thinking (away from the felt
), I gotta be able to make some good with that.
I've applied to 7 or 8 jobs in the past couple weeks and I'm gonna keep at it, despite being qualified for almost nothing. Gonna keep talking to people, putting myself out there, and taking advantage of every opportunity. There's no luck in this world, everything is perfectly predictable, and those who use good judgement while seeking chances will always come out ahead.
Here I go again.
Last edited by Fuster_Cluck; 08-09-2014 at 02:35 AM.