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Originally Posted by 6bet me
I don't always know what GG would do. Sometimes his responses surprise me. For example, the JJ on a 622 board facing a $330 jam into a $150 pot, I was somewhat surprised to see GG comment that he would snap call, when other players, who were typically far looser than GG, said that they would fold. I ultimately called there and I'm still not sure whether it was a complete cooler spot or whether my call was bad. I'll categorise it as a semi-cooler for now.
Maybe you haven't been here long enough but it really isn't surprising he calls there. GG is a total nit preflop but a slave to SPR and "pot commitment" post flop. This allows him to make mindless decisions post flop and still win some money because it's generally true in a low SPR spot we should not fold an overpair. But there are exceptions. It's important to incorporate reads and a very loose passive guy donk jamming over 2x the pot just has it much more often than not.
I don't think calling is a big mistake. You're good decently often. Just not 41%.
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Originally Posted by 6bet me
The explanation is simple: I would never have had that $440 if I didn't do labour for my friend. All of the events that led me to getting $440 in a day started from me doing 2.5 hours of labour, and would never otherwise have happened. So if I lose the $440, then I'll be in exactly the same position as if I'd never done those 2.5 hours of labour. I'll effectively have just done some labour and gained nothing out of it (ie. free labour).
This is a dangerously illogical argument for a gambler. It should be extremely obvious why, but I'll explain it like you're 12.
Suppose I work for a year and at the end for good performance am offered a bonus. I can take it in the form of 5000 dollars or shares in the company stock. The shares are currently worth 5000 dollars and expected to go up in value but the market is volatile. I take the shares. Over the next year the stock has doubled in value. I sell the shares for 10000 dollars. I then take my 10000 dollars and buy shares in a risky startup. The startup goes bankrupt. My wife is furious with my irresponsibility as we could have used the 10000 dollars, but I explain it wasn't my money. It was a bonus from the company. It started from my 5000 dollar bonus so I didn't lose 10000 dollars.
Except I did. I had 10000 dollars and chose to make a high risk investment, then after losing came up with an absurd justification.
This is exactly the same as your situation aside from time periods and nature of the risky investment.
You work for some period of time and are paid for that period of time. You're given the choice between 100 dollars and investing 200 dollars in your poker game on a split. You win 440 dollars after the split. This is your payment for the work. You now have 440 dollars. It's your money. You worked for it and have an oral contract with your friend establishing it is your money. Suppose you then play poker with it and lose the 440 dollars. You have now lost 440 dollars. You shrug it off because it started out as your friend's money.
Don't you realize this is how acquiring money works? Somebody pays you or gives you money or you win it. That money is legally yours.
Another analogy, poker this time.
I deposit 100 dollars online. I grind it up to 5000 dollars. I now have 5000 dollars. I then play 1000NL until I go broke. At the end I say "oh well, I only lost 100 dollars." NO. I lost 5000 dollars.
You are exhibiting the exact logic used by gambling addicts. You know, the kind who won a 100k jackpot in slots early on, then continue to play slots for 30 years, having lost 99k of the winnings. Oh well, they say, "I'm still up 10k over my lifetime."
You need to *wake up*. Whether you lose 440 dollars is not the point and relatively unimportant. You absolutely must cleave yourself from this kind of thinking if you want to succeed as a poker player. Otherwise there's nothing stopping you from taking your poker winnings and shot taking at 5/10/20 then saying "oh well, it was DLuo's money to begin with." Which of course would justify you playing responsibly on stake and being a gambling degen off stake.