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Originally Posted by Phil Me Up
Sad story.
Oh, I don’t see it as sad at all. I’m glad I learned in my teens when I thought a thousand was a lot of money rather than later on in life with more on the line. I’m happy I entered the deepest depression I’ve ever experienced for years on and off after that relationships. The deeper the valleys, the more joyous the peaks.
It startled me onto a path of continual awakening to the reality of sexual relationships between man and woman. Tasting that bitter pill early in life and learning to see relationships from a rational rather than completely emotional point of view has led to more success with the opposite sex than I could have ever imagined.
If a man has not consistently approached the most attractive girls and been successful some of the time, he has no ideas the games women are capable of playing. And anybody who thinks or says young attractive women (and most of the relatively attractive older women) don’t want to be sexual objects is so utterly wrong. Watch what they do, not what they say. Do the most attractive women not compete to be the chosen object of a sports stars or Leo DiCaprio or Brad Pitt or billionaires with private jets?
They just don’t care to be the personalized sexual objects of desperate guys. This thirstiness from men is a given for them so it doesn’t even register on their radars. Men with many choices and who seemingly attract all the women are the objects of desire for most women. Preselection. The more women a man sleeps with or is seemingly able to sleep with, the more attractive he becomes to ALL women.
Men are objectified just as much as women are. It’s just so taken for granted (read: poker pros/crypto gods/venture capitalists/tech experts/business moguls/ceos/athletes/celebrities) it doesn’t register on our radars. In fact men want to be objectified. Objectification is fame or notoriety. Being well-known gets you laid. It means you stood out from the crowd.
If you have any insight into conversations women have among each other, you’d know they perceive most men as housewives perceive their kitchen appliances. It’s the man who doesn’t let himself become a tool that is a mystery to be solved and a challenge to be overcome. Women swoon for him.
Just because society teaches you to be ashamed of your sexuality and make you feel guilty about objectifying hot women and thinking sexual thoughts about every hot woman you come across, and conditions you to put all that drive into the corporate/financial realm where you become the tool of powerful men, used for the benefit of and raped by the men who control the economic system, doesn’t mean you can’t wake up out of the matrix you can’t see beyond now, and realize that the natural biological propensity for virile men is simply to spread their seed as wide as possible. If you see something wrong in polygamy, you’ve been taught something that benefits society but not you.
Like the Tao says,
When a superior man hears of the Tao,
he immediately begins to embody it.
When an average man hears of the Tao,
he half believes it, half doubts it.
When a foolish man hears of the Tao,
he laughs out loud.
If he didn’t laugh,
it wouldn’t be the Tao.