just really fed up with sh*t outside of poker gambling (tired of the repetitive nonsense getting nowhere with certain things or certain things getting worse despite tryna better the outcome and also knock on effect had on my value system nature selfcontrol in general all areas of life and expression of self feel torn more volatile in nature whereas i used to be very controlled strict with what parts me i let run free and what parts i didnt now its more just a mess ha, illusion of self control and agency in who what i am is slipping alot) but also yh on the side gambling poker too im fed up with (really the less important part but still a part im fed up with ha).
basically being honest im paisting but a more pure gambler on top, whereas paisting just seems an oddly controlled gambler in terms stake how much risk etc and doesnt seem to play casino games, but just bad poker player mix with monkey tilt (i can relate i tilt spew like mad too also just mess around gamble for the lols).
i just dumped £100 at a mix of 20euro omaha games and little bit of roulette and blackjack on the side last night 50/50.
decided today/tonight more specifically, enoughs enough i need to sort myself out in poker in gambling and life so parts i can control in my life or feel i could (illusion of) im gonna try too, so creating this thread to do so or influence chance succeed at seeding the change and it growing.
ive deposited $90/£75.96 on 888 ill drop down to 5nl if drops to $45 and 2nl at i dunno about $24 but beyond that im never ever ever gonna gamble anymore im never using aggro bankroll management never playing a blackjack or roulette session again in my life im done with it and so over that now, beyond that i dont even have a job at the moment looking but got some obstacles in my way with actually getting work i dont want to go into detail with honestly.
my username gives away how long the threads lasting, basically 3months or the summer, and then im gone, cause by that point be my birthday so will wanna purge my database etc start fresh anyways new beginnings and all that nonsense rebirth, also likely not play birthday be burnt out as planning to really play alot, im wierdly ritualistic in that way sort OCD like really but till then i wanna keep accountable of my gambling habits and play in poker main reason for thread is hoping it will stop my 1) being super aggro with risk and the roll money i have and 2) keep me out away from the casino games and 3) maybe just maybe ill tilt spew a little less??? maybe ha 4) hoping i can build a omaha poker roll before my birthday rolls comes around so can play focus on that with an actual proper roll not YOLO it with 5-8buyins per stake.
gonna lay goals out really clear and precise aswell so i cant deviate from them i set said them so thats it now.
step 1) as said play holdem at 888 for now and snap, holdem
why snap? - mainly more hands per hour and the player pool is small so hopefully touch wood plays little more like regular poker tables (cause ive never ever beaten zoom poker at pokerstars for any meaningful stretch of time at good stake ive donated loads in those pools) and so dont get bored try force action too much or hopefully i dunno.
why holdem? - mainly the hands per hour part hoping hourly and variance is less if beat the games, two negatives im not a very good speed/zoom/snap/fastfold holdem player and im a meh regular table player good when im so called in zone not monkey tilting but the fast fold formats im bad whether so called in zone or not, second negative holdem is i try force action too much particularly regular tables i also bore quicker space zone out quicker playing holdem and auto pilot spew more not think as much, and yes three points i tilt way more easily at holdem than omaha dont ask me why but its true (normally relates to me making a really stupid mistakes normally in terms of bluffing or something or just something i know is losing yet doing it anyways i dont know but holdem grates me and is more stressful than holdem particularly when lot hands tables on go or yh its just the more complicated game holdem postflop than omaha so mistakes can be lot bigger and if everyones around similar ish skill level then were all losing money wasting time paying lot of rake or beating game for smidge losing for smidge and guess at low stakes micro stakes where playing for well not alot it can tilt you or least me, but just being honest).
so might not be wisest idea to a) play holdem b) play fast format of it but least till 50nl if get there i think im gonna do it.
first goal
grind out either $960 or $2150 at 10nl (why the ridiculously conservative size amount going from 5-8 buyins to play a stake to this, simple im fed up redepositing i never in my life moved down in time when have moved up i always either crashed and burnt or ended up in casino side things some point so im going the long route) other reason is im really really sh*t at zoom holdem so not confident in my edge or having keeping one anyways as when i tilt i really tilt or when i play c-d game its really *****ng bad bad, add to that the random i cant be bothered play properly lets gamble mess around or force action sessions play more volatile its just yh im over it and i wanna make chance me having to redeposit low as f*ck, ill make up for the silly conservative bankroll requirements by just putting in lot of hours least till my birthday.
anyways first goals this so focus on making this reality first, main reason not playing pokerstars is also cause apparently under maintenance when tried download client also hotkeys werent working last was there made me time out lose pots and again ive never beat zoom holdem there for long enough so probably not worth it, and not in mood to play regular holdem, and regular omaha or zoom id like bigger bankroll from now on before i redabble there but really i prefer like playing omaha more than holdem just think the climb as long as can actually maintain a winrate will be quicker holdem than omaha cause the more hands per hour thing as what 200hands per hour omaha reg 260reg pokerstarstars about and maybe 320-340 zoom omaha 2 tabling zoom or 4tabling regular, compared to 375-450ish hands reg table holdem depending site 4-5tabling or 800-1100 if table zoom, think just the smaller bankroll requirements even if going over conservative route and reaching a so called longrun working out if got edge quicker makes holdem the best route least upto 50ish past then not sure as think pure fish vanish past 50nl in holdem past then depending site as table numbers i know forsure drop and as im a fishier holdem player than omaha (least i believe i am, maybe just as shi*te at both) buy eh yh gonna stay with holdem for now.
i may have to withdraw from roll too for some life expensives etc too annoyingly but plus point err gives me more motivation to focus on tryna play well and win.
Sorry for the wall of text and rambling, but wanted to really lay out goals clearly was feeling like **** last night and today and tonight (actually still am, other night was more cause some mental stuff on top of health stuff today tonight more the same ha but tryna be positive it will change the health issue, and also the mental stuff personality nature i can change my expression too get back to a state frame more like how i once was than this bulls*it nonsense, and self sabotage crap in bunch areas of my life.
good luck to anyone whos trying to be best version of themselves by the way, life just sucks balls really ha all luck end of day no matter what way slice and dice it we choose nothing when comes down to it we are what we are and were not driving.
covered my username avatar in the pic, but to be fair the player pools small and im gonna be playing lot so probably bit pointless thing to do ha.
wish everyone luck in life, not at the poker tables vs me lol, but outside that really do hope if not happy least content or can say i tried my best be best version of me i can be and actually like respect myself somewhat.
alright night i probably should try wind down got appointment early tomorrow morning.
peace out.