Your first mistake is playing super -EV video poker games. At Borgata they have a machine
Borgata
99.69% SDB: 25¢, 50¢, $1 - Super Double bonus??? It's the one where the Quad J+ are 600
You are losing 31 cents on average for every $100 you put in there and can easily make that back up with comps assuming you are playing perfect strategy which is pretty hard to do actually.
Parx has none - this is there best one
98.98% DDB: $5, $10 (that is super expensive)
98.85% JoB-S3P: $1 - that is most likely like 9/5 or 8/5 JOB
Chester has none
98.39% JoB: $1, $2
Those stupid Spin Video poker games you are playing are like 97% at best. So those are huge money sinks. Now granted these machines are over time. You could easily lose $4000 before you hit that royal flush. Sometimes even 10k if you run really bad.
I play video poker a lot and usually am down a small amount over the year - but make it back up with comps. I maybe run like $1000 through the machine before I quit and a lot of times I lose, but a few times I hit the Quad AAAA or better and it pays back everything you lose. Just keep track of your win loss. At the end of the year if you play enough you shouldn't be up or down much more than $4000 assuming you are playing correctly. And the comps you get should easily make up for the difference
TL
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Don't play Video poker at Parx or Chester and drive to Borgata to play it