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Originally Posted by Dream Crusher
You should absolutely not go. I'm pretty certain I walked in college but I have absolutely no memory of the actual ceremony. Actually, my only memory from that graduation was some lady at a bar telling my hippie brother it looked like he had pubic hair on his face. Aside from that, definitely not worth it.
Ty for sharing your thoughts DC
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Originally Posted by rickroll
I'm a huge fan of dc but wouldn't take much life advice from him
Contact your friends, see if they're doing the walk, if they are you should go, going to be the last time you'll see most of them both individually and in groups, even if most aren't doing it, it'll being some cathaticism and you'll still get a chance to properly say goodbye to the campus and a few individuals
I always become an emotional wreck at reunions because majority of people don't make it and it just reminds me that it'll never be like that again and I start thinking about all the wrong choices I've made that I can't go back in time and replace. If you don't go but your friends do go it is something that could end up haunting you 15 years from now
well said.
I feel you man; I am an emotional wreck everywhere as well... except for on the felt/over the board to a large degree somehow.
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Originally Posted by wj294
1000% go to the graduation. It's a bit of a farce but it might be the last time you ever get to see everybody from your course and I've no doubt there will be a giant piss up too. I also think your Mom would love to see you graduate, it always feels like a parenting bucket list item of sorts for most parents.
Hey man, thanks for dropping in.
Yeah, my mom would definitely like me to go.
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Originally Posted by Aesah
haha nice to see differing opinions. I think it's a complete waste of time
I mean if you have a group of friends that are making plans to hang out while everyone is in town, then for me, I guess I would maybe go to that but skip the ceremony itself
To me, it seems it mostly comes down to how much you value 1 in a lifetime / sentimental memories. I do not value them, so I always end up feeling like "man I would have rather just played some volleyball for those 3 hours (or whatever) instead" afterwards
well said
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Originally Posted by rickroll
i didn't graduate with my normal class, it was a non event meaningless event for me and as such really emphasized to my parents not to travel out for it, they listened but they feel bad about not going to this day, not even an only child either, they've been to a number of graduation ceremonies
definitely consult the moms before you decide not to if you're leaning that way, it could be a very big deal to her
Yeah, my normal class (c/o ‘21) hasn’t even graduated yet... which is weird lol.
I was leaning no, although now I’m not so sure.
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Originally Posted by acescracked84
I feel like graduations are a lot different now, especially post covid and 19 years after I graduated HS. I think it's far less sentimental and would not go to Texas for it.
well said
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Originally Posted by SimpleRick
If anyone asks what you're doing for work tell them you are a gambling addict but you have a system, then ask to borrow money.
“bUt HOw muCh DiD yoU lOse?”
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Originally Posted by DeadMoneyWalking
RtP has more than one mom?
Nonetheless, this is the right answer, ask her-his-them if she wants to go. Graduations are just there to flatter the parents for paying tuition.
just one, afaik
Very happy with the direction I went for college, in retrospect.
It wasn’t quite a full ride, but I got a pretty sweet scholarship and got to go out of state.
If I had went to UCLA or the equivalent, this thread likely doesn’t exist.
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Originally Posted by Garick
Can't imagine traveling half way across the country to celebrate an event that happened a year ago. If it were enough later that it was nostalgia, maybe, but right now it is solidly in the "old news" category while not even close to the "remember the days" category.
Nice to see you in here, Garick
Are you a doctor yet?
well said
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Originally Posted by squid face
The smartest people I know are my former blackjack partners. They are also the kindest and most honest. The problem with the gamboolin world is there are a lot of scumbags and you have to be careful and it can be hard to meet the good ones.
I would go to your graduation. You are making good $ so its not a burden to go and it kind of closes that chapter in your life. Dont worry about teh pokerz. Every one is all over the place when they are just getting out of college and are worried about appearing successful. Just tell em u are doing some stuff with chess to pay the bills and are working on a math based project that may or may not pan out but you really dig it, its super exciting to you and unfortunately you cant talk about it due to confidentiality factors and say "you understand" and nod your head. They will nod with you. Then ask em a question and a followup. BOOOM! I have had to deflect for almost 30 years now and its super ez if u have a plan
Nice to see you in here as well, squid
well said.
I meant more so in general, rather than % wise of course. Obviously, in the more lucrative careers it is more a dime a dozen where as in gamboolin I assume it is closer to few, and far, between.
All of that had me laughing very hard. I’ll keep it in mind.
Yeah, $ + opportunity cost wise this stuff is no big deal. One of the benefits of the freedom/flexibility of course
Large crowds make me extremelyyyy anxious, however no one (anywhere) is going to be able to help me there lol. We’ll see, but definitely appreciate all the different perspectives a lot. And my mom certainly wants to go.
That’s why I feel semi comfortable talking about life/financial decisions with you guys- thread always delivers with good (and funny) insight.
Also, my mom was happy I put 6k away like that. That way I don’t spend it/blow it too. Out of sight, out of mind.