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Originally Posted by DumbosTrunk
Session is going horridly, lost AA all in pre with top set to back door wheel 34, winner was ready to muck until his neighbor looked over at his untabled hand and repeated “you have a straight, you have a straight, table your hand.” Went off on the player (who definitely knows better) for being a total a hole. Lost top two to a fd as well, and top pair bdfd bd wrap to AA nfd in 3! pot spr 1. Already stuck a couple grand. At least Annie is in the room, hopefully she plays 2/5 again and I can join her game.
Edit: got the double KK versus ?? against the a hole, threw in a “good call”
for good measure and let him know my neighbor whispered I had top boat. Hehehe…
It's definitely bad etiquette to help someone else read their hand they haven't tabled. But based on your posts in here I'd guess that you rub quite a few people the wrong way and that's going to attract these sorts of things. For example you saying "good call" after you win. Totally unnecessary. Any sympathy I might have had for you goes out the window when you act like that. Haven't you ever heard "two wrongs don't make a right"? At least try to be aware that these things that are happening to you might not be happening in a vacuum. You might be a key part of the equation in a lot of these interactions. You can't control other people's actions but you can control yours. If you don't want to attract so many of these negative interactions maybe try to think about the things you could be doing differently to avoid these situations.
Do you think I'm right? Or do you think this a-hole would have told this guy to table his hand no matter what? If it's a bad player who's money everyone is going after it would make sense another reg would prefer him to win over you, I get that. But if this other reg knows you would extend the same courtesy to him he might have shut up in that situation. The best way to handle this situation is to just tell him one player per hand and that each player is responsible for reading the board and their hand until it's tabled, not antagonize him after you win a pot vs him. Say "It's ok but please don't do it again." But now everyone at the table probably wants to do it to you. Antagonizing him after the fact is very childish behavior and only going to lead to more negative interactions.
I remember I accidentally did this once eighteen years ago at Chumash. Someone tabled 8 high, the other guy was about to muck and I just blurted out "You can't beat 8 high?" without thinking about it. The dude tipped me $5 and I gave it to the dealer. Later on that dealer, Wakana was her name (how do I remember so much?), she said she was surprised I said anything because she knows I know better and I apologized and said I just blurted out my thought. She was cool about it. She also told me that guy never tips which is just awful. People who don't tip are such misers but that's a whole different conversation.
Good luck! Keep calm and poker on!