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A Short Lesson About Will Power A Short Lesson About Will Power

05-26-2010 , 01:20 PM
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Or at least, I dare you to demonstrate that it is. What is your advice to someone who finds that they dont have as much willpower as they would like? Try, focus, work really hard at developing more willpower? But wouldnt that require....WAIT A MINUTE?!!?!?
Yeah yeah, life is meaningless, there is no freedom of will and nothing makes sense. I know all that.

Seriously though, everyone bar some completely mentally handicapped people has some willpower. You can use that willpower to build your willpower. What's the problem?

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But it is not possible to "have more work ethic" any more than it is possible to "have more attraction to fat chicks."
I'm sure it is possible to develop attraction to fat chicks to a certain degree. Hell, you yourself just wrote a nice long inspirational post about it.

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beets
Haha, do you mean beetroot? Beetroot is the ONLY food that I can't stand.

Last edited by Vantek; 05-26-2010 at 01:26 PM.
05-26-2010 , 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Vantek
Yeah yeah, life is meaningless, there is no freedom of will and nothing makes sense. I know all that.

Seriously though, everyone bar some completely mentally handicapped people has some willpower. You can use that willpower to build your willpower. What's the problem?
Life isnt meaningless, and most things make sense. I'm not sure this is really about free will either. I just want you to be clear. Your claim is that you can build your willpower if you find you dont have enough. I'm asking you what skill is required in order to build willpower....because it seems to me the answer is willpower. If your argument is "You can build more willpower, you just need more willpower" can you see how I might have trouble just accepting that without question?

You are correct, everyone BELIEVES that willpower is somehow different from "natural athletic ability." If we were having this discussion in a bar, you would win the popular vote hands down. But its my contention that this whole nonsense breaks down VERY quickly, and I think we've done a good job of showing why. It doesnt deteriorate to nihilism. It just deteriorates to "willpower is a skill just like blue eyes and natural inborn athletic ability." I understand why this makes a bunch of people very uncomfortable, and thats why it elicits the responses it does, i.e. "ZOMG if you believe that you are a nihilist" as seen above.

But it doesnt have to be like that. Dont worry you can still blame fat people for their misfortune if that makes you feel better.
05-26-2010 , 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Vantek
I'm sure it is possible to develop attraction to fat chicks to a certain degree. Hell, you yourself just wrote a nice long inspirational post about it.
Yes I think that was a bad example. Attraction to fat chicks, liking tomatoes, and losing weight are all analogous. They are the end results. The process is will power. I wrote a nice long inspirational post about me utilizing my willpower to make (modest) changes in my life. But I didnt use my willpower to increase my willpower. I already had enough to accomplish what I wanted. Someone might have the necessary willpower to develop an attraction to fat chicks, but that guy aint me. And its too bad, I'd love to be attracted to everyone (everyone that its legally and morally responsible to be attracted to anyhow). But I cant do it, and not for lack of trying.
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Haha, do you mean beetroot? Beetroot is the ONLY food that I can't stand.
Not sure, the dark red/purple squishy nasty slimy things?
05-26-2010 , 02:02 PM
I guess one more way to look at it is that the amount of willpower that people have is dependent on the extent to which they believe willpower is in their own hands or are pressured by other people.

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"You can build more willpower, you just need more willpower" can you see how I might have trouble just accepting that without question?
I can see it but I'm not impressed. You need money to get a job. You need to be at a tolerable condition to do excercise. You need an economy to improve the economy. There is no problem with this self-reference.

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Not sure, the dark red/purple squishy nasty slimy things?
Yes. It's not about them being squishy and slimy though. It's just the flavour. To me it's a bad flavour. Just bad. I can eat it. But it tastes genuinely bad.
05-26-2010 , 02:42 PM
I had asked people to answer the four questions of my original post. Vihawk01 replied.

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Originally Posted by vhawk01
Ok, Al, I apologize for hijacking, and I'll try to answer for you.


Yes.

It worked. But then, I have fairly strong willpower (I think).

[I've left out his answers. You can just read his post. He closed with:]
Its the internet, thats what its for, nitfests and flamewars. And porn.
Thank you for your post. It was not at all a hijack. On the contrary, it was right on target. It also demonstated that the internet and, more importantly to me, this forum are NOT just for nitfests and flamewars. This forum and the others at this website are primarily for helping each other.

Regards,

Al
05-27-2010 , 02:41 AM
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Originally Posted by David Sklansky
The problem is that people value x worth of short term joy over avoiding 2x worth of long term suffering. My idea is to add some short term joy to the moment you are exercising will power by experiencing a good feeling at the moment you are exercising it. Basically pride. Frankly it would be harder for me to feel this, if willpower was a much more common trait. I like feeling superior and having willpower is one of the simpler ways to get this feeling. I can see how someone less misanthropic might not find my strategy as effective.
- Exactly. Perfectly put and right on point.
05-31-2010 , 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted by vhawk01
Life isnt meaningless, and most things make sense. I'm not sure this is really about free will either. I just want you to be clear. Your claim is that you can build your willpower if you find you dont have enough. I'm asking you what skill is required in order to build willpower....because it seems to me the answer is willpower. If your argument is "You can build more willpower, you just need more willpower" can you see how I might have trouble just accepting that without question?

You are correct, everyone BELIEVES that willpower is somehow different from "natural athletic ability." If we were having this discussion in a bar, you would win the popular vote hands down. But its my contention that this whole nonsense breaks down VERY quickly, and I think we've done a good job of showing why. It doesnt deteriorate to nihilism. It just deteriorates to "willpower is a skill just like blue eyes and natural inborn athletic ability." I understand why this makes a bunch of people very uncomfortable, and thats why it elicits the responses it does, i.e. "ZOMG if you believe that you are a nihilist" as seen above.

But it doesnt have to be like that. Dont worry you can still blame fat people for their misfortune if that makes you feel better.

Everything is natural inborn. Willpower can produce more willpower (or shortcuts to artificial willpower). Sure. But its a ridiculous debate since the bottom line with everything as we know it, is that every action, every thought, every physical process is predetermined by the conditions of the start of all times. Cause and effect in a (neverending?) chain.
06-01-2010 , 06:34 AM
So I think we all know that vhawk01's and vantek's above posts are nothing but thinly veiled bad "beet" stories. Sorry I couldn't resist.

AW
06-01-2010 , 03:26 PM
lulz

      
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