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Originally Posted by squid face
next time she brings up adult time look at her point blank and ask "how long have you and (friends name) been in the lifestyle"? If they are ackshual swingers in the swinging lifestyle she will perk right up and tell you. If she is confused in any way then she is going behind his back and yer pal is not hip to her shenanigans imo.
This is not as good advice as one might think. There are all sorts of things that could be going on here, and lifestyle swinging is nowhere near the top of the list. The swinging world is its own little island, and not everyone who is interested in sex beyond the bounds of marriage is clued into it.
PointlessWords' description of what happened is scant; but based on the scant evidence, the conclusion I leap to is that friend's wife has a hankering for getting done by two guys at once, and she has singled out PW as the unicorn. This is rather different from lifestyle swinging, which is more like ritualized partner-swapping.