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01-26-2018 , 09:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Avaritia
Im sincerely asking happily married thread members for advice. My dad is a pos and mom is dead and i have no friends.

Do you want someone you totally click with or do you want a caring partnership. I dont think they are the same thing and so far only successful relationships ive seen are caring partnerships.


Happily married here for a whopping 6 years

Grass is always greener.... just find someone you like spending time with
01-26-2018 , 09:49 PM
who?
01-26-2018 , 10:10 PM
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Originally Posted by BiteMeFish
RIP Warren Miller.
Indeed. What a legend.
01-26-2018 , 10:24 PM
.3*.5*.5*.1
01-26-2018 , 11:02 PM
01-26-2018 , 11:11 PM
Just drilled my 1st promo ever

Flopped quad Jacks in a 3! Pot

+550
01-26-2018 , 11:34 PM
Every woman wants doggy style on her birthday
01-26-2018 , 11:52 PM
Happily married for 14 years, after having been unhappily married (not to the same person) for 13 years.

No relationship is perfect, but in my first marriage it was a constant struggle that I stuck with way too long because I'm stubborn and everyone always told me that relationships are hard work.

This time it's not hard work, except very occasionally. I am way happier and way more relaxed. What does it for me is that my wife is very smart, very supportive, has interests that even if I don't share them are interesting, like Irish dancing, and some we do share, and generally doesn't sweat the small stuff. Obviously, the fire doesn't burn as bright as it did early in the relationship, but it still burns, and it keeps me warm and lights the way home.
01-27-2018 , 12:24 AM
Garick waxing poetic and ****.
A true renaissance man.

11t, not so much.
01-27-2018 , 12:43 AM
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Originally Posted by 11t
Every woman wants doggy style on her birthday
As reported earlier, you should know
01-27-2018 , 12:48 AM
Ok so to clear something up the threesome/sexual thing is a joke. I mean yes it was real but thats not why i was attracted to her. I was attracted to her bc she was always wanting to do stuff. Like travel kayaking/scuba/etc. She was really adventurous for a 25 year old chick in the corp world.

Like i said the reason we broke up was bc my mom died and I hated everyone for a long time. I quit my job, lost my mind, moved to sfla to get even more depressed playing f**ing poker for a living.

I met Mrs Ava and she has been nothing but caring for me and honestly possibly saved me from suicide. That was a long and dark time ago and im way past that but yea. I feel like i owe her everything. Not just with her bc of that fwiw. She is a kind soul and tbh I can say that for like 5 people I've met in my life.

That said, got home and was able to download all the pics of ex.

She is cliff diving in south america, sky diving in australia, in an ice cave in greenland, flying a helicopter god knows where. She is my dream girl.

I know Im setting up myself for chat anal ripping for the rest of my life but i dont care. This has brought me so much stress Im actually tearing up. I dont know what to do. Mrs Ava loves me like a mom. ****ing rip away I dont care.

Ex gf would be like a best friend.

The question is, who makes a better life partner. I honestly dont know. Leaving Mrs Ava feels like kicking god in the teeth. Ignoring a sky diving helicopter flying cliff diving girl feels like giving god the middle finger.
01-27-2018 , 12:59 AM
Your wishy washyness dictates you deserve neither
01-27-2018 , 01:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Donat3llo
As reported earlier, you should know
These mouth breathers gonna mouth breath.
01-27-2018 , 01:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Donat3llo
Your wishy washyness dictates you deserve neither
01-27-2018 , 01:07 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by BiteMeFish
Garick waxing poetic and ****.
A true renaissance man.

11t, not so much.
WE IZ HAS SRZ CONVO ITT?
01-27-2018 , 01:33 AM
I'm setting the line on the number of Steve Wynns facelifts at 3.5
01-27-2018 , 01:38 AM
I'll take the over.
01-27-2018 , 01:58 AM
Have you ever mentioned to the thread what your GF wants out of your relationship? Is she open to going out more? Does she want marriage? She doesn't want kids right?

You don't owe her anything, just like she doesn't owe you anything.

Don't pretend that you are doing her any favors by sticking with her because she has been kind to you. I know that is not the only reason your with her, but it shouldn't even be a reason.

It seems like you are afraid to let go because one you don't want to hurt her which is understandable, and two because you don't know if you can find something better. Both reasons though are selfish and when this relationship eventually comes to a conclusion will do her more harm.

You need to for lack of better words man up and make a decision. Relationships are work, not everything is perfect, feel wrath kind of hit it on the head with regards to what a partner should be.

Interest aren't on that list for a reason. Yes you guys might share some interest, but most partners aren't always going to be 100% compatible. Plus that would be annoying as hell eventually. You need to decide if your willing to compromise on the fact that she isn't about that adventure life.

From the sound of everything she isn't. It won't change, and if it does it will only be a slight change. Can you accept that or not? It is a yes or no.

If yes then forget about the fantasy your having about your romantic re-connection with your long lost best friend/soul mate. It rarely works out the way it does in the movies. Focus on your relationship and your adventures. While accepting the fact the your girlfriend won't always be by your side.

If no then move on. The sooner the better. Don't hold your girlfriend hostage though because you can't make a decision on what you want.
01-27-2018 , 02:06 AM
Wonder what his wife thinks of this gf

Also @jack, apd and I are riding winter park on sunday.
01-27-2018 , 02:13 AM
Smoking right now so my head wasn't clear. I forgot you guys are married. In that case you should probably get the divorce started right away if your answer is a no to the above.

If it is a yes. Still give up on your fantasy re connection with your ex or soon your boss won't be the only one in the office getting his dick wet with someone other than their wife.
01-27-2018 , 02:30 AM
The End of the ****ing World is a really good show
01-27-2018 , 02:35 AM
No. whs, no.

Ava...your last post said a lot.

I suggest you find a competent psychologist and have him/her poke around upstairs for a few sessions.

No joke. I'm old enough to be your father....and it is what I would advise my own sons.

GL

Last edited by King Spew; 01-27-2018 at 02:36 AM. Reason: marriage counselor is a good second option
01-27-2018 , 02:40 AM
Whats a no though?
01-27-2018 , 02:41 AM
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Originally Posted by feel wrath
The End of the ****ing World is a really good show
Almost started this up tonight, will put it on the list.

For all penners, does your woman now/in the past have hair extensions? GF got them in preparation for the wedding since she doesn't have much volume and I'm pretty impressed with how they look
01-27-2018 , 02:47 AM
My wife does and has for a few years.

      
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