1) In EP I'm folding this to a straddled pot unless I am 95% certain its getting limped around and staddler is someone who often (lol) checks his straddle.
2) Yes leading is best. If you pot'd it you could have jammed turn, though the
would have been a bad card for you. (not in the sense of villain having a flush, but in the sense of it being a scare card to villain)
3) I try to get out of the habit of being MUBS to preflop raisers. In other words, if there were a few callers and now one of THEM started showing agression, I would be very cautious. To the preflop opener however, putting him exactly on a flush bc the third
came out is tighting his range way to much. He is very likely to have an overpair here.
I call turn. If river pairs, I jam. If river is a heart, I c/f. If river is a non heart, I probably c/c