There has been some recent accusations from a member of this forum about another member that need to be addressed. This thread will be a containment thread for that. I will let them get into the details of it all. This thread is guaranteed to get dirty and hit below the belt. Because of that reason the modding will be loose. If you troll and fan flames... well it will be a judgement call on our (the mods) part. If you want to ask questions feel free to do so. If you want to take someones side and defend their honor feel free to do so.

One other thing. If it spills over into another thread, infractions and bans will be immediate.

So what would you guys like to know?

FYI, dhcg, Kydd is more than welcome to air out what he has to say in here also.

can you extrapolate on this statement please?

why do you ask this like we want to know? you brought it up. either air your dirty laundry or let it be

Cliffs? I missed the drama

Are you saying you don't want to know?

I assume twoplustwo would want to know if someone was cheating and lying to players in the poker community

Am I wrong in that assumption?

Also, are you speaking for yourself or for other people at this point in time?

"Let's do this dirty laundry"

KyddDynamite is a liar, a cheater, and he abuses the relationships with his horses, with the women in his life, with the people in his life, and with society

If you are not interested in these things then it would make sense for such a person not to read this thread

So going forward I will judge people on their actions and motives, and if you decide to frequent this thread as a lurker, a poster or as an individual that has been abused by Kydd, then I will assume you are indeed interested

i'm saying that you obviously have something you want to share. why are you asking us what we want to know? you already know what you want to say. we (i) don't even know the right question(s). so if you want to talk about whatever is happening it would be best to give full details and then we can ask questions based on the information presented

edit-i can only speak for myself...shouldnt have use we

If this spills into another thread (I.e. Chat Thread) then the poster will be infracted and/or banned. Basically, keep all the crap here.

I'm not ready to write a full trip report (that will come in NVG) so I would like to use this thread as a tester thread and as a place for members to air any grievances that need to be addressed vs Kydd.

I will now be linking this to Rapini as he has been fairly insightful and often spot on in regards to Kydds Behaivor

The bottom line, and I say this with a high degree of certainty, is that KyddDynamite is a liar and needs help.

As a society we should not be trying to hurt one another, but instead promote healing, understanding and acceptance.

I am asking you what you'd like to know because I have eight months of information and thats a bit much for me to type out as I sit in the airport and await my flight to Pittsburgh

ok so just to be clear, I cannot discuss this anywhere else on twoplustwo without getting infracted and or banned

is that correct?

Its ok to say we.

ok, i will bite...

1.In what way(s) has Kydd lied/cheated/and abused people?

2. Why do you feel the need to make this public? *this may be answered by the nature of the response to the first question

This isn't a tester thread, this is THE thread. I will also ask the mods of NVG to direct (or delete) any traffic.

Well, dhcg, which of those things really matter?

Like, I DGAF if he, you, or anyone else has life leaks. Those are personal issues.

I think it's meaningful for people to know if/how he is cheating people/horses/others at poker, including factual proof.

Wow, thought you and him was besties. I thought for sure it was a match made in heaven. That's why I don't get paid to think lol.

Maybe start with the relevant stuff and leave out the stuff about his personal life?

Also, maybe think about why this is so important that you're dumping all of this before you get on a flight?

And, what is your current relationship with Kydd? What are you doing now? Are you anyone's horse?

Dane-

I'd like you to wait before posting your answers if you haven't already...Im going to post something after this

Two hot blooded young men with admitted issues (spending, etc.) in a business relationship with lots of money available? You thought it could never end badly?

Truthfully speaking yes. Dane made me feel that way.

hmm

1. he lied about his winrates (I have solid proof)
2. he lied about his arizona ice tea lawsuit. (he confided in me that he ingested glass on purpose so he could sue and win money)
3. he constantly changed the terms of our staking agreement so that he could make more money, put down his horses, and control us in an incredibly abusive enviroment. (many instances/proof of this, although other horses may wish to remain anonymous, which is cowardly, but acceptable)
4.Kydd cheated/stole/took about 3k after I beat him for 9k as we played HU. This goes against all logic and it goes against earlier agreements we had made
5. Kydd lied and continues to lie about his networth,which directly affects my ability to move up and grind higher

there are more I am sure but I need to organize my thoughts a bit more (purpose of this thread)

I made this thread because I realized that I was living another life as a victim and I refuse to do that ever again.

Kydd was also preparing to scam more people with his fake and suboptimal coaching, and I want to make sure nobody else gets hurt

additionally, Chad needs help. Its not his fault that he has so many problems, but it is his fault that he refuses to address them and that he continues to lie

Here is my one piece of advice. Take it or leave it.

Write out everything you feel right now in a word document. Save it and close the file. Shut down 2p2, your email, IMing, skype, facebook, twitter, etc. In 24 hours, open the word document and read it out loud to in a private setting. Do you still feel the need to say whatever it is you have written down?

If the answer is still yes, then post it. I am willing to bet you won't want to post whatever it is you have written as is. You may still want to share, but much of the emotion or vitriol you are feeling now be may gone. At that point you can edit to show the facts and the facts alone. No added emotion swaying your judgement.

This is my 2 cents. I have used this in my personal life when writing angry letters (for business purposes). 9 times out of 10, I have decided I didn't want to send the letter as is.

Good luck with whatever you choose.