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Originally Posted by jc315
@ZuneIt to be fair.. I had just table changed an hour ago and you can only buy in for $300 max. Had to pocket the rest, and I was up a lot for this session.... It wasn't like the "OK last orbit thing." It was more just like "eh I'm getting tired I should be going soon."
Quitting Reciprocality - Tommy Angelo
"Walking away is easy. The hard part is standing up." — Tommy Angelo
I have always had very strict policies when it comes to quitting, even when I first started playing poker. Back then I had two main quitting rules that I never broke. I would always quit if I was out of money and nobody would lend me any, and I would always quit if everybody else did.
Eventually I quit all that stuff. I quit running out of money, and I quit being the last guy to quit.
Nowadays I think of quitting as a skill set unto itself, with branching subsets of skills for each type of quitting situation. There's knowing how to quit at limit games, and there's knowing how to quit at no-limit. There's knowing how to quit when you have a curfew, and when you don't. There's being able to quit when you're ahead, and when you're stuck. There's quitting when you feel good, and for when that doesn't happen, you need to know how to quit when you feel bad. There are many ways to outquit your opponents.
One thing about tournaments is nobody ever quits. That decision is done for you, or rather, to you. The good news is, it is impossible to make a bad quitting decision in a tournament. The bad news is, your opponents can't screw it up either, which means there is no reciprocal gold to be found in tournaments by the superior quitter.
By one way of looking at it, I have made tens of thousands of terrible quitting decisions. Times when everything was wrong. When I was tired. And tilted. And the game was bad. But I'd play on. I'm talking situations where a panel of quitting experts would unanimously decree: "You are severely injured and you are bleeding all over the table. Quit. Quit now."
But I wouldn't. I'd take the next hand. And that'd be one bad quitting decision. After that hand, I'd have the option to quit, but no, I'd take another hand — I'd make another quitting mistake. That's two quitting mistakes in four minutes. And I had just begun to not quit.
In time, my blood started to clot, and I got a little bit better at quitting, and then a little more better, and then one day
I realized that every session of cash-game poker I ever play will end on a quit, so I really should continue forever to work on getting better at quitting, and a few years later I realized that if I wanted to quit well every session, then
I'd have to be sharp at the very end of every session, since that's always when the quitting happens, and a few years after that I realized that no action is an island, that
everyone else's sessions always end on a quit too, and that the real reason there is money to be made by quitting well is because sometimes my opponents don't. Reciprocality.
[Quitting a 1/2 hr after you have realized that you're getting tired is not "quitting when I'm still
sharp. I've lost track of the number of times that people, who were up $600+, have their chips racked up with a working stack on the table, with the intention of leaving when the BB gets to them & blow off $100 or more. It's freakin' sad.]
Me - So, when I start to feel it coming on, I get up & take at least a 15 minute walk. Watch 'em shoot Craps, or whatever. Give my body the chance to drain the adrenaline from sitting at the poker table focused on the game.
I don't drink any sugar, as it will give me a false sense of what I call "ok-id-ness"
I have read Angelo's article probably close to 100 times, yet I have still had 3 sessions where I got caught up in a hand & fell into what he calls "entitlement tilt."
http://tommyangelo.com/articles/reciprocality/
There's only 2 things I've mastered at poker:
1. I never pee on my Button.
2. If, after 2 hours, I have a losing image, I leave [the table]. - Phil Ivey
I wish that I could say that there was a 3rd: I quit really good. However, when I'm at the table with a few friends, I'll stay, when I'm no longer sharp, if we're all having a good time. Which means all 3 of us have had a healthy win session. Even then, I've never "blown off $100" waiting for the blinds to get to me.
I guess I'll have to read Angelo's article 1000 times before I come close to mastering everything in his article.