Not that 2000 is some awesome achievement, but I will admit that I didn't want my 2000th post to be just a response to someone else's HH. With that in mind I started thinking about what i could do for #2000 that hasn't already been done (difficult) and about which I'm actually qualified to speak (even tougher). What I came up with is not necessarily some awesome strategic ploy, but rather a few observations I've made in the past year since i started playing live on a regular basis (Black Friday FTW).
We've covered what bad players do, see DGIHarris' thread on donks:
http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/17...hands-1242315/
+ just about every thread on this board.
We've also covered what good players do, see best of LLSNL:
http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/17...llsnl-1168186/
What I'd like to discuss briefly (too late?) is a few things that I've seen consistently from the player pool that I believe is in abundance on this forum; the player who thinks he's good because he read a book somewhere, but has massive leaks that his ego can't allow him to fix. This is in no way exhaustive, and you may disagree with some examples. To that end, I'm counting on my 2+2 superiors to chip in with points and examples to demonstrate ways we can improve that I am not qualified to address (see my limited live experience). I'll post my main few points and we'll see if this turns into a grand sweeping epic or just a fizzled delusion of grandeur.
Ego stroking
There is no surer way to be a douchebag/kill all your action (and mine) by insisting on making sure everyone knows that you know what you're doing.
Examples:
Talking strategy at the table- I'm not an extremist on this, but there is a point where table chatter about the play is far less about being social and far more about demonstrating your superior knowledge of poker. It should be evident why this is a terrible thing to do. No one is ever really impressed
Terminology- THis goes hand in hand with the last point. Why is it so cool to bandy about words like "EV", "fold equity" (as if you had any), and "merge?" Just keep it to yourself. It makes the bad players wonder what you're talking about and the good players laugh silently at the tool who is working so hard to be recognized.
Referencing your online "career"/tourney scores- this should be obvious, but I can't believe how many times I've heard some kid start bragging to the table about what Cake poker has and hasn't done for him. My other favorite are the grandiose claims to have cashed some obscure $1000 buy in tourney on a riverboat somewhere. This is nothing other than "Hey everyone! I'm good! Praise me!"
Berating fish- This has been discussed many times, but it still befuddles me. They played bad and beat you. That's the game. Get over it.
Understanding motivations is key in my opinion. Why do decent players act in ways that are destructive to success? It all stems from a need to be recognized. We crave respect and affirmation and by leading others to believe that we have a superior ability at the game, we will get that respect. So, in a word, this is insecurity. If you know you're good, then you don't need others to tell you so. If you don't know you're good, the path to validation is by becoming good, not by telling everyone that you are. Work, not talk.
I think this is enough for an OP. I had planned on posting a few more points, but I think I'll wait and see if anyone actually made it through this much. I look forward to seeing some other examples of mistakes made by potentially decent players. I'll close by saying that I do not consider myself to be the best ever or better than anyone here. I do know that I am a big winner in my game, but that doesn't travel far. I'd like to thank 2+2 for all the help I've received so far and i look forward to conversing with you all in the future.