Prior to the last month, I used to favor pot control and cheap(ish) showdowns with my strong one-pair hands, occasionally sacrificing a value bet on the turn when it's possible (or even likely) that my opponent was on a draw. My reasoning was, by making that turn bet, you are often putting in >30% of your stack and getting yourself into a dangerous pot commitment situation.
Fast forward to a few weeks ago, and a lot of the feedback on my hands was to value bet/fold the turn because it's simply too big of a mistake to let V's draw for free. So since then, I have often been value betting the flop and turn on draw heavy boards, even though it has led to some uncomfortable situations. With that said, let's move on to the hand.
Game is currently 6 handed around 2:00am last night. Villain is an early 20's Asian who seems a little fishy, and based on my reads of his physical demeanor he doesn't strike me as a type of player to fear. He has been chasing flush draws all night. An orbit earlier I bet/bet flop/turn with TPTK with a flush draw on board and he called to the river, flush hit, I checked and he bet 1/2 PSB and I folded.
In another hand, V limped a straddle in MP and called my $30 raise (along with a short stack) from SB when I had QQ,. I hit top set, short-stack went AI for $20 more, V called and I c/r him and he folded.
6 handed, effective stacks of $230.
Hero opens K
Q
UTG to $10
V calls $10 OTB
SB calls $10
BB calls $10
Pot: $36
Flop: K
8
J
SB, BB checks
Hero bets $30
V calls $30 fairly quickly
SB, BB fold
Pot: $95
Turn J
Hero thinks for 10-15 seconds before betting $75
V tanks for nearly 2 minutes, possibly Hollywooding, before going all-in for $190
$115 more to Hero. Hero has put in exactly 50% of my stack at this point. Should I have b/f the turn or checked and reassessed? My thought process was that I thought the J was a relatively good card for me to bet for value considering my preflop and flop strength indicates I have a pretty strong hand, AA, AK or KQ is the majority of my range here meaning I don't think AJ or QJ would peel the flop here ... but since I don't classify V as a thinking player, he very well may have peeled AJ/QJ, or possibly slowplayed KJ on the flop.
Is the bigger mistake not b/f this turn or b/f after putting in 50% of effective stacks?