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Originally Posted by Developedmind
I think it would also be helpful if any body here tried (with no success) to become pro, and now have a regular job and play part time/ just for fun.
It would give us another angle of this story... basically to tell us the things that didn't work for them.
I've been a pro since early 2011....I won an FTOPS, moved out to South Florida and within a couple of months....black Friday happened so I was left in a spot where I had quit a decent day job (have a college degree with some work on my masters), moved across the country, and had to change my plans to playing full time live (without receiving all my money off full tilt at the time).
I play predominantly 2/5 and occasionally 5/10....hourly rate has steadily grown over the years but stayed between $40-$60 per hour on a yearly basis. I've been able to play higher but have always stuck to stakes that I know I have a big edge at. My issue has always been the ability to get in the hours (typically get in 1200-1500 hours per year). I've learned to only play when I'm in a condition to play my A game meaning: I've got to the gym, in a positive mind frame, had adequate sleep, got my studying in for the day, and WANT to be at the poker room.
The conclusion I've come to at this point is this....poker is a game that I love and I'm good enough to beat consistently. I simply need more to my life though. After ruined relationships, going through a huge chunk of my bankroll from overspending/partying, drugs, crazy women, dealing with the emotional roller coaster day after day, depression (all occurred within first two years of playing...have calmed down dramatically now)....I really had some evaluating of my life to do. While a lot of these "life leaks" have nothing to do with poker...they still do in a way. Poker is simply a business if you want it to be a living and you have to treat it as such. Fast money and a lot of temptation is difficult for anyone...there's a right way and a wrong way to handle it simply. If I would've been at my old job and living this way....I would have been in REALLY big trouble though. In a game that I've always prided myself having such discipline in....simply wasn't true with my life outside the poker tables.
A year ago, I decided to get involved in real estate out here and get my license. I can't tell you how much more I enjoy my life now that I've taken a lot of emphasis off playing poker full time (not to mention I enjoy playing a lot more, making the same if not better money, and actually playing better IMO). I still play about 20-25 hours per week but spend mornings/the rest of my day focusing on other endeavors. I'll always be a poker player but at this point in my life (early 30's), I simply want more and expect more out of myself.
For those of you who want to give it a shot, it takes a lot of hard work on/off the tables. Poker is the same as the game of life....all you can do is simply make the best decisions possible and not worry about the things that are out of your control. In the end, to this day I DO NOT regret my decision to move across the country to play poker full time. Everyday is my own to do as I wish, I go to the beach on a daily basis, love both of my jobs, make good money, and each morning is full of possibilities...love the life I've created. Taken a lot of hits though and will continue to do so in the future....it's the way life works.
All-in-all....you have one life to live so get out there and make it original....do what you love and take some chances. Just be smart about it.
....and if you need a home in South Florida...hit me up
Last edited by OSUTexan; 04-01-2015 at 10:24 AM.