Originally Posted by SABR42
This is going to sound super super douchy, but I feel like I have a God-like aura around me right now. Girls love me, and guys want to be me. I've been getting compliments all over the place from guys and random girls are approaching me to ask me out when I'm not even trying. This is definitely a new experience for me, as someone who's always been an introvert who was awkward around women and people in general.
It's been building up for a while, but at some point recently I had an eureka moment, at which point I realized that for the first time in my life I have real, genuine confidence that comes from within. The kind of confidence that gives me inner peace and makes me love and accept myself. It sounds cliche, but ever since then, everywhere I go I have a smile on my face and make people laugh and have a good time because my positive attitude is contagious.
I have always had many good qualities, but due to my introvertedness they tended to be hidden from people unless they knew me closely. I am a genuinely nice person who cares about other people and enjoys helping other people succeed. In the world of underground gambling, full of scumbags, scammers, perverts, or just general *******s, a successful person like me who is also genuinely nice is a unicorn. Once I realized my true value, it gave me the confidence to approach anyone I want and show them the best version of myself, without fear or insecurity. I've also been working hard at the gym recently and seeing good results, which can't hurt.
The result of all this has been a dramatic snowball effect. Whenever I walk into a room now I EXPECT people to love me, and they DO. I've always known that confidence is attractive, but I've never experienced it to this degree. Some guys around me are baffled by how the girls are treating me because they're paying the girls for attention and treating them like sexual objects. I don't even ask for attention but the girls come to me because they feel safe around me. I am sweet, but playful. I flirt, but don't cross the line. I am sensitive and protective, but not jealous. I am super nice, but not a "nice guy" who does something nice and whines when he doesn't get something back. When you genuinely help people and don't expect anything in return, people you actually want to be around will love you and reciprocate.
I have learned from my many past mistakes and everything seems to have clicked. It feels like I can do no wrong. I am getting way more attention from girls than I have time to deal with. The clingy ones will send me like 15 texts in a row. I am very selective and only interested in the hottest girls who are also mature and have good personalities (there are a lot of fake people and gold diggers in this industry). It's working well. I'm having fun and every day feels like a great day, even if I lose five figures at poker.
So that's my story. A lot of what I say may seem like common sense to a lot of you, but I learned this stuff the hard way and I'm proud of myself for having fundamentally altered myself as a person. People are shocked when I tell them I wasn't always this way. Oh, and at some point this year I'll probably buy an Audi R8, because I've always wanted one and I've worked my ass off to get one. It's gonna be a V10.
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