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Originally Posted by Avaritia
FWIW I agree alot with what he says and to keep it to winrates, I'd say it has alot to do with area and room.
I'd play poker as a breakeven player recreationally in Daytona. I'd need to make $300 an hour to play in Hialeah.
You just run into different groups and different types of people in different places, and while some places are casual and fun, many are scummy. In my experience.
I have actually sacrificed wr to play in rooms I prefer (but theorethically maybe not bc I'm not on tilt or I'm safer in the parking lot etc.)
I actually think I'm overexaggerating here as to the people aspect. There are a few people I'm very friendly with -- there are a couple hedge fund guys that run multibillion dollar funds that are really awesome guys. They play relatively well too so my wr suffers when they're at the table. But they are real pleasant to be around. A couple other guys who do this recreationally and splash around, real fun guys, even when they complain about bad beats, I can deal with. And sometimes I have a chuckle inside.
It's actually amazing because if some people like you, they will tell you how they play in great detail, and they'll tell you what they had or show you their cards.
It's just the few regulars who have bad etiquette that gets on my nerves. Like theres this one guy, let's call him g. When he tilts he spews off literally 4-6 buy-ins in a few hours. He's good for wr and I've owned him in the past. But he's an angleshooter and slowroller. Every chance he gets hell try to push the rules. BUT as soon as another person does something he doesn't like, he'll call them out on it and especially when it's his money on the line, he'll call floor.
He doesn't like me now because I called him out on it in front of the whole table several times once. And he was whining to the floor saying (literally), "he can't tell people what I'm doing." I get happy when I see him lose. That's an unwholesome state of mind, to be happy for another's person's pain.
Another thing that is bad for my emotional winrate is people coming back reeking of smoke. It's something I'll never really get over I guess bc it's just such an unpleasant smell.
As to my being inexperienced in life: yes relative to people who are older. I'm late 20s. ive probably traveled more than most people will in their entirr lives. I've run my own businesses. I used to tutor lots of kids. I've worked in silicon valley in a startup. I think what's most shaped me is being around monks and meditating with spiritual masters. I will always remember their purity and generosity and kindness and love. I yearn to be authentic myself and the first step is to remove myself from environments where deception and hatred are the norms.
And I really think emotional winrate is an important idea. We have to live with ourselves and if we are not happy, no matter how much money we have, were going to have regrets. I'd rather live a life without regret.
And another thing I miss is working in groups and teams. There's something about poker that makes us extremely self centered. It's every man for himself and it feels animalistic at times. There are different types of intelligence and while intellectual and mathematical ability can lead to higher winrates, i think emotional intelligence and relational intelligence lead to a happier life. Not to say that the latter are not used in poker, but I see mine declining the more I play. Gotta put a stop to it.
Last edited by spirit123; 01-25-2017 at 04:09 PM.